We're in our 20s. I have feelings for her, but she doesn't feel the same way. Problem is, we're very close friends. We've tried keeping the friendship because it is important to us, but we know how turbulent it is, and we try to prop each other up. She'll tell me constantly how much I mean to her, and that there's no one out there like me, and I do the same; but we've been on so many breaks; it's getting difficult. We're on a break right now actually, and I know she's been crying about it.
I guess it's time to have the serious talk; I want to tell her exactly what I am feeling, but I am not sure it's a good idea. I want to tell her that I still do care about her, that no one could replace the times we've had. And that, if I could go back a year to when we first met; that I would tell my past self to go talk to you; because even though there were so many arguments, and hurt; it was worth it, because she's one in a million, and I wouldn't meet someone like her again. But some people come and go in life, and it's just time for us to both leave. I've always tried to be honest with her, do you think she'll hate this? Or appreciate that I am trying to leave on good terms, so it won't be weird if I run into her again?Is this how you break up with a friend?
Yes she will hate this.
If she is so great, then why stop being friends.
Just because life changes, does not mean you have to no longer speak to people.
You should just tell her that you will no longer be able to see each other as much as before, but still want to be a part of her life, though it will not be as intense or as often as before.
Friday, August 20, 2010
My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?
we broke up and his friend just sent me a message saying he noticed im single now and asked how my ex is doing.. hes never talked to me before through email. im pretty much done with my ex and dont care to keep any contact. should i respond? as a friend or straight to the point of his questions? or not at all?My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?
I would respond just to be polite. I mean, as you said, he didn't do anything wrong. To the answers that said he may like you, that may very well be true, but it's not for certain from what you wrote here. I mean, when I broke up with my ex, I had several people contacting me, noticing I was single, basically wondering what was up and how I was doing. It may just be that, or it may be something more. I would politely respond and answer any questions that you feel are appropriate. I wouldn't be rude to him, he may just be trying to be nice. Or if he does like you, then let him down easy.My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?
He is just trying to hit on you now that you are single. That is not a good idea, since your ex is his friend. You will only cause problems and you ex will probably accuse you of cheating with him before you split. You are too vulnerable right now to be approached by this guy. He knows you are vulnerable, so his motives should be suspect!!
its just an e-mail. Respond straight forwardly with your point getting acorss. No small talk. Hope this helps :) and dont show signs of being ';interested'; in him, maybe thats where hes trying to get at, or maybe he is sincerly sorry and asks how your doing. Either way don't show off that your upset. make it clear you moved on.
Good day xoxo
I can't answer if you should email him or not but I can tell you if you answer to get back at your ex that is wrong. If you email him to see whats up and end up likening him no biggy that is for the two friends to fight out.
Peace
I'd personally go straight to the point but politely answer everything, this way you don't burn any future bridges and it's hard for the ex to talk about what a bi-atch you are and blah blah.
Girl.. depends. If the message is mean, don't reply. Its a low class of fighting. If its like all nice and like they tried to comfort you, then hit reply and say ';tnx';
hmm if you dont care about your ex at all anymore, then why not reply?.... if you still care about his feelings, then i'd say be careful if you decide to write back cause it could get back to your ex
Respond if you want but be cautious of this guys intentions. Sounds a little sketchy to me, but I'm sure you already knew this.
I would cut all ties just pretend that you did not get it. To reply would be playing with fire... plus your ex most likely set it up.
I would never date an ex's friend. That's me though. Of course be friends with him but just tell him your not interested.
I suspect this guy wants to date you. If you want to date him, respond. If not, don't.
I think this friend is interested in you.
It all depends on how you feel towards him. Do you want to make it up with him? If you do, call him.;-)
IGNORE dont be stupid. also...your ex could be setting you up.. good luck =}
Block his friend...smells fishy to me....
as a friend, dont be a dick cmon
maybe he wants to hook up with you; if you like him as a friend you could keep contact but if you don't really care about him one way or the other just ignore any of his texts
I would respond just to be polite. I mean, as you said, he didn't do anything wrong. To the answers that said he may like you, that may very well be true, but it's not for certain from what you wrote here. I mean, when I broke up with my ex, I had several people contacting me, noticing I was single, basically wondering what was up and how I was doing. It may just be that, or it may be something more. I would politely respond and answer any questions that you feel are appropriate. I wouldn't be rude to him, he may just be trying to be nice. Or if he does like you, then let him down easy.My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?
He is just trying to hit on you now that you are single. That is not a good idea, since your ex is his friend. You will only cause problems and you ex will probably accuse you of cheating with him before you split. You are too vulnerable right now to be approached by this guy. He knows you are vulnerable, so his motives should be suspect!!
its just an e-mail. Respond straight forwardly with your point getting acorss. No small talk. Hope this helps :) and dont show signs of being ';interested'; in him, maybe thats where hes trying to get at, or maybe he is sincerly sorry and asks how your doing. Either way don't show off that your upset. make it clear you moved on.
Good day xoxo
I can't answer if you should email him or not but I can tell you if you answer to get back at your ex that is wrong. If you email him to see whats up and end up likening him no biggy that is for the two friends to fight out.
Peace
I'd personally go straight to the point but politely answer everything, this way you don't burn any future bridges and it's hard for the ex to talk about what a bi-atch you are and blah blah.
Girl.. depends. If the message is mean, don't reply. Its a low class of fighting. If its like all nice and like they tried to comfort you, then hit reply and say ';tnx';
hmm if you dont care about your ex at all anymore, then why not reply?.... if you still care about his feelings, then i'd say be careful if you decide to write back cause it could get back to your ex
Respond if you want but be cautious of this guys intentions. Sounds a little sketchy to me, but I'm sure you already knew this.
I would cut all ties just pretend that you did not get it. To reply would be playing with fire... plus your ex most likely set it up.
I would never date an ex's friend. That's me though. Of course be friends with him but just tell him your not interested.
I suspect this guy wants to date you. If you want to date him, respond. If not, don't.
I think this friend is interested in you.
It all depends on how you feel towards him. Do you want to make it up with him? If you do, call him.;-)
IGNORE dont be stupid. also...your ex could be setting you up.. good luck =}
Block his friend...smells fishy to me....
as a friend, dont be a dick cmon
maybe he wants to hook up with you; if you like him as a friend you could keep contact but if you don't really care about him one way or the other just ignore any of his texts
Help me break up with a friend!?
I am totally lost on what to do, so I am turning to this ';community'; for some advice. I have a friend who I have known for 8 years (we are in our 30s), but I no longer have any interest in keeping the friendship up--for many different reasons that would take me too long to explain.
I am not the kind of person who could just tell her what is going on, why I don't want to talk to her anymore, etc. because I don't want to hurt her feelings--she is extremely sensitive and takes everything very hard. I know that if I said anything negative to her at all, it would be discussed with her husband for months to come and she would obsess over it, so I have to be very careful about what I say and how I say it.
I should also mention that she only has 2 friends, myself and a neighbor of hers (no joke) and I know that it would completely devastate her if I dropped her with no explanation. I don't know if she knows how fed up I am with her.
Any ideas on how to accomplish this?Help me break up with a friend!?
its always hard to to end a fading friendship. i know exactly what you mean. sometimes one thing leads to another and you find yourself completely fed up with a friend and at that point it is time to end the friendship because if you don't its going to put a strain on your life and it just adds extra stress that you just don't need. i would suggest confronting her as hard as it may be. i would just say we've been through a lot and having you as a friend was an amazing part of my life and i would never regret that but i feel like soem things have happened that you and i both know and things just arent the same. i just feel like at this point in my life i can't handle this type of friendship. i think i honestly just need some space because a lot of things are going on in my life right now. Although i feel as though it would be better if we werent friends for a while, i just want you to know that if you ever truly need me im only a phone call away. thanks for everything and i definately dont want to upset you. i know you will make a great best friend to someone else and if you branch out good things will come to you.
i know this is hard but i wish the best of luck to you!Help me break up with a friend!?
Well, in this situation i think it is best to let her know what's going on. It's sort of rude to just not say anything and pretty inevitable that she'll come back because she's a good friend. I understand that she is sensitive. but if you have something to talk about with her it is best to do it up front. i'm not saying she'll take it fine, she might even take it badly. but the point is that you got your point out and she has a chance to either understand or just ignore it and wallow in self pity. She might need some cool off time when you are done talking to her but ultimately, you'll be doing something good for her. people sometimes need a reality check and if she gets one from time to time she'll become a better friend. it might be something she could think about and change.
i am sorry but life is hectic and i just do not have the time to be with you as friends any longer i dont mean to hurt you please no hard feelings
first u should think about ur frnd and then of your heart don't hurt any loving ones if she is very sensitive than you should be very care full.but you have to say yours fillings but how that's depends on you.OK
Maybe the only thing you can do is just slowly distance yourself from her. Stop taking her calls, don't call her, make excuses why you can't get together.....It might take a while, but I don't know what else you could do that would spare her feelings.
Oh My! this is interesting because I'm going through the exact same thing, i have a friend that I've simply outgrown. In the beginning of our relationship it seemed that we had a lot in common, but as time progressed I was proven wrong. the way I broke apart from this clingy friend without too much controversy is i told her that i was unfulfilled and needed to find myself, which required A LOT of time to myself, not too much going out and not too much phone conversation. This works! I understand shes sensitive so dont cut her off at once--wing her off. Trust me, it works.
Kat! I am that girl you are talking about!! I can't believe u would write about me like this =[ i thought we were friends!!!!
Tell her husband. Let him know that since you are all grown up and married now that circumstances have changes. Tell him that you no longer have time to maintain a friendship with him and his wife because marriage has put a gap between the friendship you had when you were single. You want to devote your time to you family and don't see where your future plans have room for them in it any more. If he doesn't understand then just it go. You really do not need to give them any more of an explanation than that.
I am not the kind of person who could just tell her what is going on, why I don't want to talk to her anymore, etc. because I don't want to hurt her feelings--she is extremely sensitive and takes everything very hard. I know that if I said anything negative to her at all, it would be discussed with her husband for months to come and she would obsess over it, so I have to be very careful about what I say and how I say it.
I should also mention that she only has 2 friends, myself and a neighbor of hers (no joke) and I know that it would completely devastate her if I dropped her with no explanation. I don't know if she knows how fed up I am with her.
Any ideas on how to accomplish this?Help me break up with a friend!?
its always hard to to end a fading friendship. i know exactly what you mean. sometimes one thing leads to another and you find yourself completely fed up with a friend and at that point it is time to end the friendship because if you don't its going to put a strain on your life and it just adds extra stress that you just don't need. i would suggest confronting her as hard as it may be. i would just say we've been through a lot and having you as a friend was an amazing part of my life and i would never regret that but i feel like soem things have happened that you and i both know and things just arent the same. i just feel like at this point in my life i can't handle this type of friendship. i think i honestly just need some space because a lot of things are going on in my life right now. Although i feel as though it would be better if we werent friends for a while, i just want you to know that if you ever truly need me im only a phone call away. thanks for everything and i definately dont want to upset you. i know you will make a great best friend to someone else and if you branch out good things will come to you.
i know this is hard but i wish the best of luck to you!Help me break up with a friend!?
Well, in this situation i think it is best to let her know what's going on. It's sort of rude to just not say anything and pretty inevitable that she'll come back because she's a good friend. I understand that she is sensitive. but if you have something to talk about with her it is best to do it up front. i'm not saying she'll take it fine, she might even take it badly. but the point is that you got your point out and she has a chance to either understand or just ignore it and wallow in self pity. She might need some cool off time when you are done talking to her but ultimately, you'll be doing something good for her. people sometimes need a reality check and if she gets one from time to time she'll become a better friend. it might be something she could think about and change.
i am sorry but life is hectic and i just do not have the time to be with you as friends any longer i dont mean to hurt you please no hard feelings
first u should think about ur frnd and then of your heart don't hurt any loving ones if she is very sensitive than you should be very care full.but you have to say yours fillings but how that's depends on you.OK
Maybe the only thing you can do is just slowly distance yourself from her. Stop taking her calls, don't call her, make excuses why you can't get together.....It might take a while, but I don't know what else you could do that would spare her feelings.
Oh My! this is interesting because I'm going through the exact same thing, i have a friend that I've simply outgrown. In the beginning of our relationship it seemed that we had a lot in common, but as time progressed I was proven wrong. the way I broke apart from this clingy friend without too much controversy is i told her that i was unfulfilled and needed to find myself, which required A LOT of time to myself, not too much going out and not too much phone conversation. This works! I understand shes sensitive so dont cut her off at once--wing her off. Trust me, it works.
Kat! I am that girl you are talking about!! I can't believe u would write about me like this =[ i thought we were friends!!!!
Tell her husband. Let him know that since you are all grown up and married now that circumstances have changes. Tell him that you no longer have time to maintain a friendship with him and his wife because marriage has put a gap between the friendship you had when you were single. You want to devote your time to you family and don't see where your future plans have room for them in it any more. If he doesn't understand then just it go. You really do not need to give them any more of an explanation than that.
How can I convince my best friend to break up with her GF?
They are just not good for eachother, I have tryed telling her she should just leave her, infact all her friends tell her, eben her co-workers tell her. Her gf is 17 but acts like she is 12, and she knows it. Also alot of people hate her for acting like a little kid all the time (the gf not my friend). She acts like she doesn't care about anything and whenever you try to talk to her about anything she seems to not care, she even does this to my bestfriend who she is dating.
I know my bestfriend should just leave her, but how can make that 100% clear. I have told her to her face and she is like well, I don't want to break up with her, and yet she knows that they are not going to last. OMG so annoying!!!!!How can I convince my best friend to break up with her GF?
okay thats not your problem you already did your part and told her.but if she doesnt want to break up with her then you should just leave her be..if your really her true friend just let her be she will learn her own lesson one way or anotherHow can I convince my best friend to break up with her GF?
Just shoot her.
you would sound controlling just let them break up when they get tired of each other if her girlfriend around don't hang out with her. you cant just tell someone to break up with their spouse and except them to do it. your friend sees past her girlfriend being annoying she dont care about that.
Why are you worried about this?
It's what your best friend wants and obviously she doesn't WANT to break up with her. I think you should just stay out of it hun.
I know my bestfriend should just leave her, but how can make that 100% clear. I have told her to her face and she is like well, I don't want to break up with her, and yet she knows that they are not going to last. OMG so annoying!!!!!How can I convince my best friend to break up with her GF?
okay thats not your problem you already did your part and told her.but if she doesnt want to break up with her then you should just leave her be..if your really her true friend just let her be she will learn her own lesson one way or anotherHow can I convince my best friend to break up with her GF?
Just shoot her.
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you would sound controlling just let them break up when they get tired of each other if her girlfriend around don't hang out with her. you cant just tell someone to break up with their spouse and except them to do it. your friend sees past her girlfriend being annoying she dont care about that.
Why are you worried about this?
It's what your best friend wants and obviously she doesn't WANT to break up with her. I think you should just stay out of it hun.
How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
Okay, that sounds mean, but hear me out.
1. She's not allowed to date him
2. He did something bad, and she thinks he quit, but no one else does...
3. He's starting to get her in trouble with her parents because of #2
4. They hardly talk, and when they do it's through texting...
5. They're 14...
I've tried talking to her, but she thinks he's ';changed...'; I don't think he did...She's getting into a lot of trouble now because her parents found out about what he did and she's constantly upset...
I know you all will say I'm mean for trying to break them up, but she's my best friend...Help?How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
Tough situation. You can't break up people. She has to make her own decisions. All you *should* do is let her know you don't think he's right for her and you don't approve of the situations he's putting you in. Then you can either:
Let her know you'll be there for her when she's ready to leave him but you can't be there to watch her go down
or
Be there for here during the relationship until (hopefully) it crashes and burns
But don't try to break them up, just be supportive of HER and not the relationship.How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
look, tell that girl that she needds to go straite up to him and tell him, ';sorry. but its over'; and tell him why.
dont meddle into peoples relationships... things happen for a reason... she'll just have to find out things the hard way
why not introduce her to someone better
What you are doing is so not mean. You are trying to do the best for your friend. I like that one girls idea of introducing her to someone better. It would open her eyes to what her relationship with this guy doing the bad things compared to what she could have with the good guy.
That is life. What she wants to do is her business even if she is your best friend. The best you can do is watch over her, guide her, give her advice, give her support and always be there when she needs you.
She needs to learn this lesson the hard way. Sometimes there are lessons that they should go through. It is their choice and they will have no one to blame but themselves.
I know it must be difficult for you to just stand there and watch but that is how things must be. Do you want her to resent you for destroying something she considers important to her? If she finds out she will never understand why you did this to her.
Think it over. ^_^
wow. your in a hard position right now becasue ovbiously she really likes him, enough to not care what he does. maybe she only likes him for his looks... try to get it through her head that hes not the guy shes looking for. or you can try getting her to like someone else. and if that doesnt work than you can.... um... well thers nothing else u can doshort hair styles Fashion Necklace
1. She's not allowed to date him
2. He did something bad, and she thinks he quit, but no one else does...
3. He's starting to get her in trouble with her parents because of #2
4. They hardly talk, and when they do it's through texting...
5. They're 14...
I've tried talking to her, but she thinks he's ';changed...'; I don't think he did...She's getting into a lot of trouble now because her parents found out about what he did and she's constantly upset...
I know you all will say I'm mean for trying to break them up, but she's my best friend...Help?How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
Tough situation. You can't break up people. She has to make her own decisions. All you *should* do is let her know you don't think he's right for her and you don't approve of the situations he's putting you in. Then you can either:
Let her know you'll be there for her when she's ready to leave him but you can't be there to watch her go down
or
Be there for here during the relationship until (hopefully) it crashes and burns
But don't try to break them up, just be supportive of HER and not the relationship.How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
look, tell that girl that she needds to go straite up to him and tell him, ';sorry. but its over'; and tell him why.
dont meddle into peoples relationships... things happen for a reason... she'll just have to find out things the hard way
why not introduce her to someone better
What you are doing is so not mean. You are trying to do the best for your friend. I like that one girls idea of introducing her to someone better. It would open her eyes to what her relationship with this guy doing the bad things compared to what she could have with the good guy.
That is life. What she wants to do is her business even if she is your best friend. The best you can do is watch over her, guide her, give her advice, give her support and always be there when she needs you.
She needs to learn this lesson the hard way. Sometimes there are lessons that they should go through. It is their choice and they will have no one to blame but themselves.
I know it must be difficult for you to just stand there and watch but that is how things must be. Do you want her to resent you for destroying something she considers important to her? If she finds out she will never understand why you did this to her.
Think it over. ^_^
wow. your in a hard position right now becasue ovbiously she really likes him, enough to not care what he does. maybe she only likes him for his looks... try to get it through her head that hes not the guy shes looking for. or you can try getting her to like someone else. and if that doesnt work than you can.... um... well thers nothing else u can do
Should i break up with my friend for ever!?
so my friend is really mean to me, but i cant let her go because i love her and i dont have that many friends, so i feel like i would be left lonely, its like a self-esteem problem. right now we are in a fight and dont talk to each other, she was really mean and rude when she told me she wanted to end things but her birthday is coming up and a friend told me i should send her a card or something but im not sure if i should, i feel that i shouldnt because she is really mean and friends shouldnt be like that to each other. so what do i do? how can i let her go 4ever?Should i break up with my friend for ever!?
Get some guts and do the right thing.Should i break up with my friend for ever!?
she is being mean and rude to you.. that doesnt say 'friends' to me!
i no how u feel.. im confuzed and unsure of who my friends are at the moment too...
either try make it up with her.. say sorry.. even if not u fault and see if she still wants to be friends! if not.. let her go!
she is not a friend if she was really mean and rude when she told me she wanted to end things. i think she is a ***** (no offense) and you should find a another friend (im not trying to be a ***** i sound like that sometimes).
Send her a card asking to talk to her and saying happy birthday. Then tell her you don't like the way she treats you and if she wants to stay friends with you she has to change that.
if she's rude to you, don't hang around her... it doesn't matter if you don't have that many friends.If she's rude than she's actually not truly your friend...sorry but I think You shouldn't be friends anymore
well... be the better person get her a small birthday card/present and tell how you feel, if that doesn't work do what your heart tells you. Say good bye for a little while, ( 4- 8 ) weeks. or until she apologizes to you.
i suggest before you break away you try to make new friends and as you get closer to them slowly tare away from her
YEa um i think so cuz no one likes to get disrespected. I think someone better will come along for you
Get some guts and do the right thing.Should i break up with my friend for ever!?
she is being mean and rude to you.. that doesnt say 'friends' to me!
i no how u feel.. im confuzed and unsure of who my friends are at the moment too...
either try make it up with her.. say sorry.. even if not u fault and see if she still wants to be friends! if not.. let her go!
she is not a friend if she was really mean and rude when she told me she wanted to end things. i think she is a ***** (no offense) and you should find a another friend (im not trying to be a ***** i sound like that sometimes).
Send her a card asking to talk to her and saying happy birthday. Then tell her you don't like the way she treats you and if she wants to stay friends with you she has to change that.
if she's rude to you, don't hang around her... it doesn't matter if you don't have that many friends.If she's rude than she's actually not truly your friend...sorry but I think You shouldn't be friends anymore
well... be the better person get her a small birthday card/present and tell how you feel, if that doesn't work do what your heart tells you. Say good bye for a little while, ( 4- 8 ) weeks. or until she apologizes to you.
i suggest before you break away you try to make new friends and as you get closer to them slowly tare away from her
YEa um i think so cuz no one likes to get disrespected. I think someone better will come along for you
How to break up with a friend?
My 'friend' is a nice person, but she can be overbearing and insane. She is often rude and doesn't realize she is being rude. She thinks she is being funny. She criticizes me for some things I do (like my love for country music, black people like country too!) She blows up my cell often calling 10+ times a day, she leaves me tons of messages on my facebook, even when I don't answer for days, she assumes she's more important than anything else, she insists i ditch my boyfriend simply because he is in jail (why would i do that?) she is unaccepting of my new friends (who are nice people) and she verbally attacks our mutual friends if they don't think and believe the exact same thing she does. I hate hanging out with her. She seriously does kill my spirit. She doesn't listen to me, she hears what she wants to hear. How exactly do I get rid of her? We've been friends nearly 4 years and i've always felt like this. Thanks!How to break up with a friend?
It hard to imagine that you been friends for 4 yearss, I mean you 2 are absolutely different people and those don't become friends in the first place. Ussualy when I have a friend that is different we don't see eachover much and it's ok, or if there someone I don't like I just ignore him/her for a while and they get the point, but according to what you wrote she don't get it. Then it will be hard. Did you tryed ignoring her? Don't answer her calls and say you buse when she want to go out. Or talk with her directly but try not to hurt her feelings.How to break up with a friend?
well, stop calling her. stop talking to her. don't reply to her.
if she doesn't want to change and be nice then move on.
Either tell her about it,
or back away from the friendship.
But you have '; mutual friends ';,
so that will be hard to do.
i think you should talk to her first... tell her everything you hate about her..
and if she didn't listen to you tell her that it's better if you two shouldn't be friends anymore(the reason is:you two don't fit at each other)
Well tells look at this from another stand point shall we............
Ahh who am I kidding .Grab your things and... RUUUNNNN!!!!
In fact leave em there ! Just RUUUNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!! : )LOL!jk!
At least try and talk with her first, and give her a chance to change her ways... if not.. then you willl just have to avoid her..then maybe she will get the hint..
It hard to imagine that you been friends for 4 yearss, I mean you 2 are absolutely different people and those don't become friends in the first place. Ussualy when I have a friend that is different we don't see eachover much and it's ok, or if there someone I don't like I just ignore him/her for a while and they get the point, but according to what you wrote she don't get it. Then it will be hard. Did you tryed ignoring her? Don't answer her calls and say you buse when she want to go out. Or talk with her directly but try not to hurt her feelings.How to break up with a friend?
well, stop calling her. stop talking to her. don't reply to her.
if she doesn't want to change and be nice then move on.
Either tell her about it,
or back away from the friendship.
But you have '; mutual friends ';,
so that will be hard to do.
i think you should talk to her first... tell her everything you hate about her..
and if she didn't listen to you tell her that it's better if you two shouldn't be friends anymore(the reason is:you two don't fit at each other)
Well tells look at this from another stand point shall we............
Ahh who am I kidding .Grab your things and... RUUUNNNN!!!!
In fact leave em there ! Just RUUUNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!! : )LOL!jk!
At least try and talk with her first, and give her a chance to change her ways... if not.. then you willl just have to avoid her..then maybe she will get the hint..
How can i break up with this girl but still keep her as a friend?
i was at a football game and this girl said that another girl liked me, and i said ok. but my friend goes up to the girl that likes me and told her i wanted to go out when i didnt. I just wanted to be friends with her but now it is all screwed up. I have known the girl though since preschool and i want her to be an option for highschool. WHAT CAN I DO TO BREAK UP WITH HER BUT KEEP HER AS A FRIEND AND NOT HURT HER FEELINGS. HELP I AM IN A CRISIS!!How can i break up with this girl but still keep her as a friend?
Not a crisis, but admittedly a problem. Number one, you should tell your friend to mind his/her own business and stop trying to rule your life for you. You can ask your own girls out.
Now, on to the problem. My best advice would be to be honest with this girl who now thinks she is your girlfriend. Tell her that you like her and even think she would be a great girlfriend, but that you don't want to have any girlfriends right now and would like to get to know her as a friend before you go further. If it doesn't seem to be going well, you can always add in the ';I respect you too much to rush into anything when I know we could be great together if we give our friendship more time.';
Sometimes it doesn't matter what you say, as long as you say it well.How can i break up with this girl but still keep her as a friend?
hmm...To be honest that's realy hard to do ... but it depends on what kind of girl your with i mean ... just tell her you don't feel that good being with her and u wish u guys can remain friend ... I heared that on dr.phil...
Impossible. Sorry. The best thing do to is start to like her.
what? ? ?
You're a player.
you should have never let it get that far. now she will hate you
Not a crisis, but admittedly a problem. Number one, you should tell your friend to mind his/her own business and stop trying to rule your life for you. You can ask your own girls out.
Now, on to the problem. My best advice would be to be honest with this girl who now thinks she is your girlfriend. Tell her that you like her and even think she would be a great girlfriend, but that you don't want to have any girlfriends right now and would like to get to know her as a friend before you go further. If it doesn't seem to be going well, you can always add in the ';I respect you too much to rush into anything when I know we could be great together if we give our friendship more time.';
Sometimes it doesn't matter what you say, as long as you say it well.How can i break up with this girl but still keep her as a friend?
hmm...To be honest that's realy hard to do ... but it depends on what kind of girl your with i mean ... just tell her you don't feel that good being with her and u wish u guys can remain friend ... I heared that on dr.phil...
Impossible. Sorry. The best thing do to is start to like her.
what? ? ?
You're a player.
you should have never let it get that far. now she will hate you
How should I convince a friend to break up with his gf?
Ok so a friend of mine has a gf who he has emotions with but he is constantly being hurt by her. Every time they fight, she leaves and eventually comes back. They then start a relationship again and then break up again, the cycle just keeps going. She is his first love too, so i guess he is too inexperienced.
All the other friends call him a ';sucker'; since the girl is only using him to comfort herself. So what advice can I give?How should I convince a friend to break up with his gf?
You can tell him he deserves better than her. If he let's her go it will hurt for a little while, but it will be etter in the long run for him. Look out for him and let's say he doesn't listen to you and she comes back to him make him realize that she isn't the one for him. Slowly guide him to making the right choice. He may be stubborn and not listen, bit stay strong and be a good friend to himHow should I convince a friend to break up with his gf?
...no matter what happens in their relationship, just remember it is just that ';THEIR RELATIONSHIP';. Bottom line he's letting it go on and he's the only one that can choose to make it stop. You also should remember that there is a chance that he may be comfortable where he's at in his relationship as crazy as it may sound. All the advice/facts may not mean a thing to him. My advice, mind ya business unless the relationship is putting a hurting on your life overall. It's ok to be there to listen, but that's all ya need to do, because at this point you already know what's gonna happen. You asked *How should I convince a friend to break up with his gf*? YOU CAN'T... the GF level of power is much stronger than you right now
i'd just let this happen on its own. interfering w/ close relationships can get ugly, %26amp; u don't want 2 B caught in the middle of a huge mess that u really shouldn't B in. if it were me i'd stay out of it
Tell him to hit it or quit it.
i think u should just say how u feel and hopefully it will get them thinking. i have the same issue right now with my friend. just tell them how u fell and maybe they'll break it up eventually
Oh no, you must convince this poor guy! :(
just live him alone
and he will learn from his mistakes.
well be there for him but its his choice what to do hopefully he can make the right won
All the other friends call him a ';sucker'; since the girl is only using him to comfort herself. So what advice can I give?How should I convince a friend to break up with his gf?
You can tell him he deserves better than her. If he let's her go it will hurt for a little while, but it will be etter in the long run for him. Look out for him and let's say he doesn't listen to you and she comes back to him make him realize that she isn't the one for him. Slowly guide him to making the right choice. He may be stubborn and not listen, bit stay strong and be a good friend to himHow should I convince a friend to break up with his gf?
...no matter what happens in their relationship, just remember it is just that ';THEIR RELATIONSHIP';. Bottom line he's letting it go on and he's the only one that can choose to make it stop. You also should remember that there is a chance that he may be comfortable where he's at in his relationship as crazy as it may sound. All the advice/facts may not mean a thing to him. My advice, mind ya business unless the relationship is putting a hurting on your life overall. It's ok to be there to listen, but that's all ya need to do, because at this point you already know what's gonna happen. You asked *How should I convince a friend to break up with his gf*? YOU CAN'T... the GF level of power is much stronger than you right now
i'd just let this happen on its own. interfering w/ close relationships can get ugly, %26amp; u don't want 2 B caught in the middle of a huge mess that u really shouldn't B in. if it were me i'd stay out of it
Tell him to hit it or quit it.
i think u should just say how u feel and hopefully it will get them thinking. i have the same issue right now with my friend. just tell them how u fell and maybe they'll break it up eventually
Oh no, you must convince this poor guy! :(
just live him alone
and he will learn from his mistakes.
well be there for him but its his choice what to do hopefully he can make the right won
Will i ever be able to meet my ex as just a friend after the break-up?
It is obvious now. My girlfriend wants to breakup completely. Instead of having a break-up discussion with me, she seemed to have opted for sudden avoidance of any contact with me. I still do love you. Last time i saw her was 5 months ago. I still feel that i want to find out some sort of reasons why she did all the hurtful things she did to me during our relationship of two years. It wasn't long i came to a realization why she not returning any response to my emails. How long will it take before she and i could meet and feel not like lovers but friends?Will i ever be able to meet my ex as just a friend after the break-up?
Never. Give it up. She doesn't want to be friends, go find someone else who will treat you better. If you won't give it up, she could think you're a stalker and that would be very bad, for you.Will i ever be able to meet my ex as just a friend after the break-up?
After you get anouther girlfriend and are no longer hurt by her actions. It takes a little while and even now I can be friends with my ex but really there is no need to be. Good Luck and Im sorry she couldnt be straight with you
You are in the wrong forum. This is a computer technical forum.
Never. Give it up. She doesn't want to be friends, go find someone else who will treat you better. If you won't give it up, she could think you're a stalker and that would be very bad, for you.Will i ever be able to meet my ex as just a friend after the break-up?
After you get anouther girlfriend and are no longer hurt by her actions. It takes a little while and even now I can be friends with my ex but really there is no need to be. Good Luck and Im sorry she couldnt be straight with you
You are in the wrong forum. This is a computer technical forum.
How do I convince my friend to break up with her boyfriend?
Okay, well my best friend has this boyfriend that treats her like crap. He cheats on her, basically controls her whole life, and even pretends she doesn't exist. She complains to me all the time about how badly he treats her, yet she won't freaking break up with him! Oh, and if she finally does get the guts to break things off he comes running back saying he's sorry. Things are then good for a few days, but end up back to normal. Why are some people like this? I mean, he doesn't even care about her. He kissed another girl right in front of her before, yet she still wants to be with him. I hate seeing her get hurt like this.
Ughh, what should I do? :(How do I convince my friend to break up with her boyfriend?
The best you can do is to tell her to break it off if she is not happy and to stop falling back into this rut. If that doesn't work ask her if she truly believes that if he loves her would her be doing these things to hurt her. Also if she goes through with breaking up with him and he comes back saying sorry tell her to confront him and say I am done i am not dealing with this anymore.short hair styles Fashion Necklace
Ughh, what should I do? :(How do I convince my friend to break up with her boyfriend?
The best you can do is to tell her to break it off if she is not happy and to stop falling back into this rut. If that doesn't work ask her if she truly believes that if he loves her would her be doing these things to hurt her. Also if she goes through with breaking up with him and he comes back saying sorry tell her to confront him and say I am done i am not dealing with this anymore.
How to move on a break up with a friend?
I have an officemate, we started as friends. I felt a special relationship with him and I think he also does later on. We kissed and according to him we are special friends and we're getting to a better relationship. He just have a family problem right now, and if I can wait, he just needs to think. After a week, I have decided that we just become friends again and forget about the special relationship. I thought I can stick to that but we became closer and kissed again (a passionate one). When I started to ask him, he said he thought we are just friends. I did not think about that since our actions does not match what we have agreed. But as we go along and tried to ask him, he started avoiding me. I can sense that he is avoiding me. One time I told him that it's difficult for me to leave him because I am beginning to love him. When I asked him, he did not answer. Until such time I texted him and just IM me saying sorry since he cannot give me his time. How can I move on?How to move on a break up with a friend?
This has to be a concious decision on your part that you want nothing to do with him. It may even involve changing jobs, if seeing him at work is too painful. Involve yourself in other activities, meet new people or spend time with other friends or either genderHow to move on a break up with a friend?
One day at a time. Keep busy, go out with friends or make plans with family. Find someone new...it's the easiest way to get over someone else.
I know that what I am about to say is easier said then done, but you need to pick up the peices of your heart and atleast act like it doesn't even bother you. You need to go about your normal daily things and just smile at him at work or just don't even give him the pleasure of knowing that you know he still exists. Just remember even if it kills you on the inside don't let him see that...never,ever!!
The question of moving on is to busy yourself in some productive work, I read ATLAS SHRUGGED it is a very nice book, may be you will find some answer to your question in that book, here is
Crazy! I am going through the same thing! We stopped talking for two months. I have been heart broken. Once in awhile I would send him a text so that he wouldnt forget about me. Last Thursday he stopped at my work and asked me to go out Friday night. I had a great time. Even met his entire family. I am hoping things start picking up again. Good luck! IM me if you want to talk.
I think you need to plan to move to another department or office with the company you are working for. If this is not possible then you maybe need to consider changing companies. Since he has evidently decided that the affair with you is over you need to accept that and go on. If you cannot work in the same office with him and move on then you need to get away from him. It sounds like you need to get away from him.
This has to be a concious decision on your part that you want nothing to do with him. It may even involve changing jobs, if seeing him at work is too painful. Involve yourself in other activities, meet new people or spend time with other friends or either genderHow to move on a break up with a friend?
One day at a time. Keep busy, go out with friends or make plans with family. Find someone new...it's the easiest way to get over someone else.
I know that what I am about to say is easier said then done, but you need to pick up the peices of your heart and atleast act like it doesn't even bother you. You need to go about your normal daily things and just smile at him at work or just don't even give him the pleasure of knowing that you know he still exists. Just remember even if it kills you on the inside don't let him see that...never,ever!!
The question of moving on is to busy yourself in some productive work, I read ATLAS SHRUGGED it is a very nice book, may be you will find some answer to your question in that book, here is
Crazy! I am going through the same thing! We stopped talking for two months. I have been heart broken. Once in awhile I would send him a text so that he wouldnt forget about me. Last Thursday he stopped at my work and asked me to go out Friday night. I had a great time. Even met his entire family. I am hoping things start picking up again. Good luck! IM me if you want to talk.
I think you need to plan to move to another department or office with the company you are working for. If this is not possible then you maybe need to consider changing companies. Since he has evidently decided that the affair with you is over you need to accept that and go on. If you cannot work in the same office with him and move on then you need to get away from him. It sounds like you need to get away from him.
I'm going to break up with a friend?
i'm going to break it off with a friend in the next couple of days, and i'm wondering how i should go about it. i'm not looking to simply sever ties with this person, but the idea of an active friendship with them- calling each other, hanging out when possible- seems to be what i want to back away from for several reasons. i would love for them to convince me it's not a good idea, and i'm not 100% sure i want to be doing this, but i think i'm going to...how should i approach it, or should i ponder it more, or what?I'm going to break up with a friend?
I have to ask a few questions first. Do you really know what you want to do? Your wanting this person to beg for your friendship? Does that make you a good friend? Would you want to beg someone to be their friend, I doubt it. I have found it best to be honest with the person. For whatever reason of ending a friendship they usually will understand and still be civil.I'm going to break up with a friend?
don't do it yet. wait another week. then think about some more... why do you want to just drop this friend from your life anyway.
it is ur choice what u want to do in life not anyone that on yahoo answers, if u do break up with ur friend but think u have made a mistake u may never get the chance to be friends again so i would think it over long and hard but like i say its ur choice not anybody elses.
You want to end a friendship %26amp; :
at the same time hope they will convince you that ending the friendship is not a good idea? or,
that continuing the friendship is not a good idea?
Either way, you might want to consider the following ...
Good Friends--Bad Friends
- The Need for High Moral Values
- Sizing Up Potential Friends
- The Most Important Things to Have in Common
- Benefiting From Differences in Age
- Improving Your Friendships
- You Can Have True Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article鈥?/a>
its a good thing u got friends.. some dont even have one. and ur breaking it???...think again dude...
NO!!!! Don't do it. YOur Friend is your Life. Don't break your heart and your friend's. Please.
I have to ask a few questions first. Do you really know what you want to do? Your wanting this person to beg for your friendship? Does that make you a good friend? Would you want to beg someone to be their friend, I doubt it. I have found it best to be honest with the person. For whatever reason of ending a friendship they usually will understand and still be civil.I'm going to break up with a friend?
don't do it yet. wait another week. then think about some more... why do you want to just drop this friend from your life anyway.
it is ur choice what u want to do in life not anyone that on yahoo answers, if u do break up with ur friend but think u have made a mistake u may never get the chance to be friends again so i would think it over long and hard but like i say its ur choice not anybody elses.
You want to end a friendship %26amp; :
at the same time hope they will convince you that ending the friendship is not a good idea? or,
that continuing the friendship is not a good idea?
Either way, you might want to consider the following ...
Good Friends--Bad Friends
- The Need for High Moral Values
- Sizing Up Potential Friends
- The Most Important Things to Have in Common
- Benefiting From Differences in Age
- Improving Your Friendships
- You Can Have True Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article鈥?/a>
its a good thing u got friends.. some dont even have one. and ur breaking it???...think again dude...
NO!!!! Don't do it. YOur Friend is your Life. Don't break your heart and your friend's. Please.
How did I break up with my friends ex?
well i started dating my friends ex, she broke up with him because he's going away to college and I fell for him. He is an amazing guy, but I've come to realize my friendship means more to me then my happiness for now. how do I break up with him without hurting him?How did I break up with my friends ex?
tell him that the reason ur breaking up with him its besause the freindshiop means more to u then he does...but say it nicely..if u dont this dude is gonna think that ur using that as an excuse...lol trust me..so just be like ';hey your a great and cute n **** but my frindsship means alot more to me n ****.....How did I break up with my friends ex?
Just go about explaining the situation to the guy. I'm pretty sure he'll understand.
tell him that the reason ur breaking up with him its besause the freindshiop means more to u then he does...but say it nicely..if u dont this dude is gonna think that ur using that as an excuse...lol trust me..so just be like ';hey your a great and cute n **** but my frindsship means alot more to me n ****.....How did I break up with my friends ex?
Just go about explaining the situation to the guy. I'm pretty sure he'll understand.
How to get my friend to break up with his miserable GF?
My ex roommate but still current friend is dating a girl that nobody likes. She brings nothing to the table. She isnt funny, she steals peoples food and beer because she is broke. She wears alot of makeup which makes her look like a clown. She complains alot. She got angry because he wouldnt buy her cheese fries. She just shows up places. We put him up on match.com but cant afford the fee to subscribe. We hoped he would break up with her if we found him someone better. Any suggestions?How to get my friend to break up with his miserable GF?
he'll eventually see the light. just dont put pressure on him to break up with her cause that wont do .sh.it. trust me i know. just support them for a while and he'll eventually see..in the meantime FIND him a great girl. invite just him out some nights to meet this new girlHow to get my friend to break up with his miserable GF?
Mind your own business, or face the consequences.
perhaps there's something about her that he likes, that you aren't seeing? Try and ask him why he likes her in the first place. maybe there is more to this girl than you're seeing.
however, if it turns out he agrees that she's a total b^^^h then go ahead, and take him out places, preferably places with a lot of females, in an environment where mingling is encouraged.
best of luck in any case.
I hope I could help, at least a little. :)
It's not your call. You can bring constructive criticism, but that's something HE has to do.
Yeah, here is a suggestion. Mind your own damn business.
Does your friend like his girlfriend? If he loves her, then let him be. It's his girlfriend, not yours. If she's that much of a problem (which I'll admit she sounds like a problem) to you guys then tell him about it and maybe you can all hang out with her a lot less or not at all. Maybe have it so only he hangs out with his girlfriend.
Well I don't think you should be trying to break them up if he is happy with the relationship, you should be happy for him. There is no way to make him break up with her really though, he has to do it on his own. So just talk to him about what you see in her, how she treats him. Maybe just let him read this and he'll know how you feel.
It really blows when you see a good friend of yours waste their time with a dead beat... and it blows even more when they drag that dead beat into your life, but there's nothing you can really do about it. Just let him know you don't like her, don't want to be around her, and hope he finds his own way and dumps her on his own.
seems like you want your friend for more than a friend
It's his girlfriend and it's his choice, you can't make that decision for him. If she is really that bad he'll figure it out when he's ready, just wait it out and try to be supportive of him.
He wouldn't have to break up with her if she was dead. Just sayin'...
offer something more, most of his type are there for the abuse
if he is happy with her i would just leave it alone cause it could backfire but if he is unhappy just talk to him and take him out and help him find some else.
Tell him that he can do better then her and there are much better girls out there for him, but if you ask me its not much your business, he might like her for some of those reasons
Lay it out to him and make him realize who she is and that she isn't good for him.
take some picture photo shop them her with another guy ( possibly some one he hates ) together then place them in an envelope and mail them to him
Tell him how needy of a woman she is and that he deserves someone a lot better.
he'll eventually see the light. just dont put pressure on him to break up with her cause that wont do .sh.it. trust me i know. just support them for a while and he'll eventually see..in the meantime FIND him a great girl. invite just him out some nights to meet this new girlHow to get my friend to break up with his miserable GF?
Mind your own business, or face the consequences.
perhaps there's something about her that he likes, that you aren't seeing? Try and ask him why he likes her in the first place. maybe there is more to this girl than you're seeing.
however, if it turns out he agrees that she's a total b^^^h then go ahead, and take him out places, preferably places with a lot of females, in an environment where mingling is encouraged.
best of luck in any case.
I hope I could help, at least a little. :)
It's not your call. You can bring constructive criticism, but that's something HE has to do.
Yeah, here is a suggestion. Mind your own damn business.
Does your friend like his girlfriend? If he loves her, then let him be. It's his girlfriend, not yours. If she's that much of a problem (which I'll admit she sounds like a problem) to you guys then tell him about it and maybe you can all hang out with her a lot less or not at all. Maybe have it so only he hangs out with his girlfriend.
Well I don't think you should be trying to break them up if he is happy with the relationship, you should be happy for him. There is no way to make him break up with her really though, he has to do it on his own. So just talk to him about what you see in her, how she treats him. Maybe just let him read this and he'll know how you feel.
It really blows when you see a good friend of yours waste their time with a dead beat... and it blows even more when they drag that dead beat into your life, but there's nothing you can really do about it. Just let him know you don't like her, don't want to be around her, and hope he finds his own way and dumps her on his own.
seems like you want your friend for more than a friend
It's his girlfriend and it's his choice, you can't make that decision for him. If she is really that bad he'll figure it out when he's ready, just wait it out and try to be supportive of him.
He wouldn't have to break up with her if she was dead. Just sayin'...
offer something more, most of his type are there for the abuse
if he is happy with her i would just leave it alone cause it could backfire but if he is unhappy just talk to him and take him out and help him find some else.
Tell him that he can do better then her and there are much better girls out there for him, but if you ask me its not much your business, he might like her for some of those reasons
Lay it out to him and make him realize who she is and that she isn't good for him.
take some picture photo shop them her with another guy ( possibly some one he hates ) together then place them in an envelope and mail them to him
Tell him how needy of a woman she is and that he deserves someone a lot better.
How do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?
I used to be friends with this girl, Sam, who's currently going out with one of my best friends, Lou. Well Sam is currently a selfish attention whore (with a moustache) whom I hate to the grave and me and my friend Mike want Sam and Lou to break up so bad! Honestly I don't think that Lou even likes Sam and he just goes out with her so he can say to people ';I have a girlfriend';. I know the girl whom he actually has feelings for and its not Sam! How do me and Mike break the two up without being rude or making Lou angry?How do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?
you cant break people up without having some sort of proff the other person is doing something bad.....which you dont. Your friend could get mad at you and your friend for trying to break him up with his girlfriend. Just let it play out they will break up eventuallyHow do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?
You don't, and trying is all of those things you mentioned and more (that is, rude, selfish, and evil). When your friends are happy in their relationships, ';friendship'; dictates that you be happy for them, even if you don't particularly care for their choice in mates. Why? Because you recognize that it's their choice to make and not yours...that's called respect. One final thought: True hatred is a strong term and I suspect you probably didn't really mean all of that. Hate is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat. Hate destroys everything in its path, so choose your words carefully, especially ones you don't mean because they ALL have energy.
Unless Sam is causing friction between you and Lou, its none of your dang business on how he conducts his life.
You may not even know all that is going on between Lou and Sam...have you tried to ask Lou what he sees in her and why he still hangs with her?
Maybe if you ask him, he may enlighten you on some things you had failed to notice.
DONT GET INVOLVED IN OTHER PEOPLE'S LOVE LIFES! you would think that most people would know that. you are being selfish, rude and you would be being evil if you did that!
you cant break people up without having some sort of proff the other person is doing something bad.....which you dont. Your friend could get mad at you and your friend for trying to break him up with his girlfriend. Just let it play out they will break up eventuallyHow do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?
You don't, and trying is all of those things you mentioned and more (that is, rude, selfish, and evil). When your friends are happy in their relationships, ';friendship'; dictates that you be happy for them, even if you don't particularly care for their choice in mates. Why? Because you recognize that it's their choice to make and not yours...that's called respect. One final thought: True hatred is a strong term and I suspect you probably didn't really mean all of that. Hate is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat. Hate destroys everything in its path, so choose your words carefully, especially ones you don't mean because they ALL have energy.
Unless Sam is causing friction between you and Lou, its none of your dang business on how he conducts his life.
You may not even know all that is going on between Lou and Sam...have you tried to ask Lou what he sees in her and why he still hangs with her?
Maybe if you ask him, he may enlighten you on some things you had failed to notice.
DONT GET INVOLVED IN OTHER PEOPLE'S LOVE LIFES! you would think that most people would know that. you are being selfish, rude and you would be being evil if you did that!
How can i get my best guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
OK, so i have a guy friend, and i don't like him, but he's like a brother to me, and he has a girlfriend, but i don't really like her. So like he's a brother to me, i decided to be a big sister and try to make him and her girlfriend to break up. I know it sounds weird, but believe me, it's the best for him. The girl's a skank, a hoe, no offense to her of course. Even one of my friend is trying to help me make them break up because we don't like her. He's seriously too young, well, no he isn't, but hey! The guy kissed me! Eventhough he has a girlfriend! And that made me develop some feelings for him, eventhough I'm inlove with his best friend. Anyway....... all i want is some help, advise and tips to how to get rid of that little hoe, so if you can help me with my dilema, i will really really appreciate it! And i know i sound like a freak, but i don't like him, he's going to get in trouble if the word gts out that he's dating her, so i need to make them break up... fast!How can i get my best guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
Wow! this is a delema, I married my best guy friend and we now have 3 beautiful children, I know you want to make it clear that you ';dont like him'; I honestly think you do....otherwise it wouldn't matter to you that much,as long as he is happy with that ';hoe'; you should be too. Have you bothered to ask him? and girl if he kissed you theres something going on in his little head. Tell him how you really, but I mean really feel, about her, about him and about him kissing you. Last, give him another wet one...pow! right on the kisser lmol!
=) BlessingsHow can i get my best guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
don't chase guys that have girlfriends, you won't get true love, all you get is breakups and revenge and what's the purpose to go 4 guys that u don't like,u don't date him 4 love, u really need to grow up
If he really likes her there is nothing you can do to break them up, don't get involved because it could backfire on you and you may loose your best friend.
You should mind your business and it seems like you like this kid, and why are you kissing guys that have gf and your calling her the hoe???short hair styles Fashion Necklace
Wow! this is a delema, I married my best guy friend and we now have 3 beautiful children, I know you want to make it clear that you ';dont like him'; I honestly think you do....otherwise it wouldn't matter to you that much,as long as he is happy with that ';hoe'; you should be too. Have you bothered to ask him? and girl if he kissed you theres something going on in his little head. Tell him how you really, but I mean really feel, about her, about him and about him kissing you. Last, give him another wet one...pow! right on the kisser lmol!
=) BlessingsHow can i get my best guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
don't chase guys that have girlfriends, you won't get true love, all you get is breakups and revenge and what's the purpose to go 4 guys that u don't like,u don't date him 4 love, u really need to grow up
If he really likes her there is nothing you can do to break them up, don't get involved because it could backfire on you and you may loose your best friend.
You should mind your business and it seems like you like this kid, and why are you kissing guys that have gf and your calling her the hoe???
How to help a friend get over a terrible break up.?
I have a friend who broke up with her boyfriend over two months ago, and it has teared her apart. She cries every night, puts on a smile while around everyone else but still isn't happy, and cries most of the time whenever she's alone. She was close to marrying this guy, and he randomly broke up with her one night. They've been dating for three years. She's been to counseling but it hasn't helped. She compared her break up to Bella's in Twilight, for comparison, and she's pretty much a duplicate of that break up. How can I help her?How to help a friend get over a terrible break up.?
Honestly move her ***. Literally go do some compettive sport and get her involved in something. Like soccer or boxing or just some other random activity. Do it with a bunch of girls and no guys. Having any guys around that look like or act like her ex will just cause it to me more depressed.
Honestly move her ***. Literally go do some compettive sport and get her involved in something. Like soccer or boxing or just some other random activity. Do it with a bunch of girls and no guys. Having any guys around that look like or act like her ex will just cause it to me more depressed.
How can i get my friend to break up with he Any tips pleaser Boyfriend?
So At school theres this guy that really like my friend and im tyrana hook him up with her, but she wont break up with her boyfriend,
And i reaalyy want them to break up,
(By the way she already no's this so its not like im doing it behind her back or anything lol)
I love her so much, and yea i no i would want wants best for her, and i really dont like her boyrfriend that shes currently going out with.
So PLLLLLLEEEEAAAAASEEEE
ANY IDEASS???
How do i make her breeak up with him?
and how do i get the guy im trying to hook up get closer with her?
Any tips please?
thankss a buncchhh! :)How can i get my friend to break up with he Any tips pleaser Boyfriend?
if your friends happy with her current boyfriend then just let her be.How can i get my friend to break up with he Any tips pleaser Boyfriend?
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Don't do anything. I understand you care for your friend a lot, but it is not your place to tell her who she should and should not date. Let her go through this herself. When she feels it's right to leave her boyfriend, she will.
sooooooooo baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad , what the hell are you trying to do ? Let yo friend do what she wanna do, this is funny :)
You shouldnt try and make your friend break up with her boyfriend because she obv wants to be with him if she didnt wana be with him she wud have broken up with him alredy. personaly i would just let them be
Let her decide what she wants to do.
never gonna work
If she really was your friend, you'd want her to be happy. If she's happy with her guy ... what is wrong with you?
And i reaalyy want them to break up,
(By the way she already no's this so its not like im doing it behind her back or anything lol)
I love her so much, and yea i no i would want wants best for her, and i really dont like her boyrfriend that shes currently going out with.
So PLLLLLLEEEEAAAAASEEEE
ANY IDEASS???
How do i make her breeak up with him?
and how do i get the guy im trying to hook up get closer with her?
Any tips please?
thankss a buncchhh! :)How can i get my friend to break up with he Any tips pleaser Boyfriend?
if your friends happy with her current boyfriend then just let her be.How can i get my friend to break up with he Any tips pleaser Boyfriend?
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Don't do anything. I understand you care for your friend a lot, but it is not your place to tell her who she should and should not date. Let her go through this herself. When she feels it's right to leave her boyfriend, she will.
sooooooooo baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad , what the hell are you trying to do ? Let yo friend do what she wanna do, this is funny :)
You shouldnt try and make your friend break up with her boyfriend because she obv wants to be with him if she didnt wana be with him she wud have broken up with him alredy. personaly i would just let them be
Let her decide what she wants to do.
never gonna work
If she really was your friend, you'd want her to be happy. If she's happy with her guy ... what is wrong with you?
How To Get BEST Friend To BREAK UP With Me?? HELP?
I recently started going out with my best guy friend. I love him a lot, but I just really don't want to date him. I really don't like breaking up with people because i don't know how they are going to react. I'd much rather them break up with me because I can take it. I can tell he isn't planning on ending it anytime soon, but if I just come out and say, ';I don't want to date you'; I doubt things will ever be the same. How can I get him to break up with me?How To Get BEST Friend To BREAK UP With Me?? HELP?
either way, it wont be the same.
you could ignore him for a week or so.. and then just come back friendly as all get out after he ends things, and try to repair what was.
either way, it wont be the same.
you could ignore him for a week or so.. and then just come back friendly as all get out after he ends things, and try to repair what was.
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