How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?

Okay, that sounds mean, but hear me out.





1. She's not allowed to date him


2. He did something bad, and she thinks he quit, but no one else does...


3. He's starting to get her in trouble with her parents because of #2


4. They hardly talk, and when they do it's through texting...


5. They're 14...





I've tried talking to her, but she thinks he's ';changed...'; I don't think he did...She's getting into a lot of trouble now because her parents found out about what he did and she's constantly upset...





I know you all will say I'm mean for trying to break them up, but she's my best friend...Help?How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
Tough situation. You can't break up people. She has to make her own decisions. All you *should* do is let her know you don't think he's right for her and you don't approve of the situations he's putting you in. Then you can either:





Let her know you'll be there for her when she's ready to leave him but you can't be there to watch her go down





or





Be there for here during the relationship until (hopefully) it crashes and burns





But don't try to break them up, just be supportive of HER and not the relationship.How do I get my friend to break up with her boyfriend (Read first!!!)?
look, tell that girl that she needds to go straite up to him and tell him, ';sorry. but its over'; and tell him why.
dont meddle into peoples relationships... things happen for a reason... she'll just have to find out things the hard way
why not introduce her to someone better
What you are doing is so not mean. You are trying to do the best for your friend. I like that one girls idea of introducing her to someone better. It would open her eyes to what her relationship with this guy doing the bad things compared to what she could have with the good guy.
That is life. What she wants to do is her business even if she is your best friend. The best you can do is watch over her, guide her, give her advice, give her support and always be there when she needs you.





She needs to learn this lesson the hard way. Sometimes there are lessons that they should go through. It is their choice and they will have no one to blame but themselves.





I know it must be difficult for you to just stand there and watch but that is how things must be. Do you want her to resent you for destroying something she considers important to her? If she finds out she will never understand why you did this to her.





Think it over. ^_^
wow. your in a hard position right now becasue ovbiously she really likes him, enough to not care what he does. maybe she only likes him for his looks... try to get it through her head that hes not the guy shes looking for. or you can try getting her to like someone else. and if that doesnt work than you can.... um... well thers nothing else u can do

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