I had my friend break up with my girlfriend for me..?

I had my friend break up with my girlfriend for me. All you guys out there told me don’t text her break up with her face to face. I didn’t text her he owed me a favor he did it for me. I told him we were going to meet tonight the bunch of us at ihop I told him to tell her in secret not in front of ppl but they heard it anyway. MOST OF YOU TOLD ME DO IT FACE TO FACE BUT I DIDN’T LISTEN TO YOU GUYS SORRY ABOUT THAT. She didn’t text me or anything or called she came over my house and called me every name in the book from. C###k sucker, called me a little boy, the world biggest baby I should have a stroller told me not to leave my house with out my diaper bag. She told me I had no balls, I was a p#ssy, I had to send my friend to tell her in front of everyone, how she regrets even knowing me, it goes on and on. I SHOULD OF LISTEN TO YOUR ANSWERS AND TOLD HER FACE TO FACE. IM LISTENING NOW!!! I NEED TO GET HER BACK JUST AS A FRIEND IM GOING TO GET A BAD REPUTATION BECAUSE OF THIS. SO PLEASEI had my friend break up with my girlfriend for me..?
Well, I am sorry to say, I am going to have to agree with your ex. She is right, if you are going to break up with someone they at least deserve to hear it from you. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you don't even know how to end it correctly.I had my friend break up with my girlfriend for me..?
So, the only reason you want to have her back as a friend is so you won't get a bad reputation? Well, too ******* late. It's unfortunate that she didn't slap you, too. You are the lowest of low, guys like you are the reason why some women have sworn off men. I suggest you grow the **** up, you immature little brat. And your friend is also a jackass for agreeing to do it. I feel sorry for the girl that she ever met you.
You already have a bad reputation...the deed is done.





And if you ever cared for her at all you'd leave it alone..,it's not about what you ';need';...you f'd up...leave her alone.








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Ya and next time you want to break up with someone...sack up and do it yourself. That was pretty ball-less to have a friend do it.
Sorry to say this but what the heck were you thinking she would do or say. I would have to agree with her. The only thing left to do is apologize about the way things went down and tell her you would like to try to be friends. I don't think that will ever happen but at least you put forth the effort and tried.
So you want her as a friend for your rep? That sounds so wrong. If I knew, her I'd tell her. After you break up with her through a friend, then you know she won't want you back or anything. I wouldn't. Love is tough.





EDIT: I'm pretty shallow. But that is low. Just about as low as it gets. Pssh. I would have told you that you had no balls too!
You're not gonna get her back as a friend. You totally screwed up. You should have done it yourself, then there would be a chance of you two still being friends.


Your reputation is now sooooooo bad! I don't think you can recover it!
you a jerk i hate childish guys like u wat else u expect for her to react she aint going to take u back and i hope she never talk to u my gosh i hate guys like u why did i come on here and suggest something this just made me mad as h***
doubt she'll be your friend now.





WHY on earth didn't you face her?





Maybe you could work on talking to people about serious things from now on, instead of AVOIDING them? You really insulted this girl... i'm sure she's finished with you completely.
Who you got to blame but yourself?





You wussed out man. Now you gotta take the heat. It's for your own growth tho man. You will learn from this and the next time you will do right.
It is a shame that you are more concerned about your reputation than you are about her feelings.
Agree with her. You should have told her yourself. Thats your relationship your responsibility. NOT YOUR FRIENDS:


She is probably so hurt
apologize





and if she accepts it, LEARN FROM THIS





and if she doesnt LEARN FROM THIS
you totally deserved it.


god you jerk.





you should have done it face to face.
She will aways secretly hate you. You definitly can't 'fix' it.
Well you are probably gonna lots of splain' to do Lucy... lol
i agree wit all dese ladies


dude


u shouldve done it face to face caz dat would still show a lil respect towards her


sry man not much u can do der