Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How would you break up with someone who is psycho one minute and sweet the next?

I am trying to help my friend come up with a break up plan. He is in a relationship with a woman that is totally psycho and treats him like crap. Then several hours later is all sweet and cuddly. He lives with her also. What should he do? Please help!How would you break up with someone who is psycho one minute and sweet the next?
He just needs to be forward and honest with her and tell it like it is. Unfortunately, this woman has probably been this way for awhile. Yet he moved in with her. That was his first mistake. Your friend needs to make a plan to live and support himself. Then if she is as phsycho as you describe, he needs to get his stuff out while she is away. In this manner she won't totally flip out and destroy his stuff. Good Luck!How would you break up with someone who is psycho one minute and sweet the next?
If they do not have any children together it is best for him to break away. He needs to find another secure place to live so he does not have to live with her. The woman may not be a bad person just may need some mental help. If he really loves her and wants to stick by her then fine, but he deserves better not to mention it is an unhealthy relationship.
(It depends who's house/place they live in. If its his then tell him to pack up her stuff. If it's hers then tell him to pack up his stuff.) Tell him not to pay any of the bills or anything that they used to do together if its her place. Simply pack up. and tell her ';Its over, Im tired of you treating me like ****, so (its either going to be ';Im leaving'; or ';here's your stuff get out of my house,'; Make sure you don't give her the chance to come in, just have her stuff outside waiting for her. Tell him i said Good luck.
Oh dear... my friend just went through something similar. He broke up with her, even though they still lived together. It was absolute hell for him until he moved out! I suggest your friend find a new place, and don't even tell her goodbye... just pack up one day while she is gone and haul ***. You don't want her finding out where he lives! Because I promise you, if he breaks up with her and then continues to live with her, she will make his life even more miserable than before he broke up with her. Oh yeah and my friend who just went through this? The girl is supposedly pregnant... she didnt tell him until after they broke up. A little suspicious, huh? I suggest he avoid sex with her, find a new place, and then leave her *** in the dust with no explanation.
Just find another place to live once you do just get into an argument and tell her, ''WE'RE NOT WORKING OUT THIS IS OVER'' then pack your stuff and leave she is bound to get furious at 1st and do unreasonable things then start crying and begging after, just ignore it all and be strong if she hits you with something or trys to just straight up fight you put her in a bear hug and kiss her cheek and just say CALM DOWN ITS OVER... you'll find a new guy i know you will anyway that is what i would do (ALSO AFTER YOU BREAK UP DON'T TALK TO HER FOR A FEW MONTHS)
hahah sounds just like an ex i had and because i was sick of her treating me like crap i took her to a lil party her friends were having we got in a fight as usual and i broke up with her in front of her friends then left her at the party to find her own ride home so try that.
I don't really think there's an easy way to break up with someone like that, or anyone for that matter. Maybe if he pulled the old ';it's not you, it's me'; line. Hope it all works out for the best!
Well first off he needs to talk to her and if she doesn't change then he needs to just tell her that he cant put up with her being psycho one min. and totally sweet the next and they just need to break it off and see how things go.
Throw out the papers. Give away your tv. Move to the country. Build a home. Plant a little garden. Eat a lot of peaches. Try to find Jesus on his own.





I would also recommend growing a beard during this time period. Then shave it off.





Hope this helps!
If he's old enough to live with a woman then he's old enough to figure it out for himself.





What's all this ';Please help!'; business?


Why are you so involved - go find your own drama and leave him (and us) alone.
Okay, when she's in her ';psycho'; state, Say





';That's it __________ Were Are so Over you're insane.';


^ her name





and then leave or tell her to leave depending on whose house it is.
Very quickly... Then run!
Tell her that hes been sleeping with u, so she will end it... The answer her is get HER 2 end it. Jobs a gud un

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