Friday, August 20, 2010

Messed up friend situation?

hi, i really need advice but its heres the outline of the story, please read





i had this best friend, girl. we were the best of friends. her boyfriend was a right tosser. he always made her cry, dumped her and got back with her, made her cry again, publically embaras her.





she told me that she wanted someone who would be nice to her all the time (at this point they were on their 4th breakup).





me and the boyfriend became friends, he told me he was cheating on her. i went and told her, with evidence. she stopped talking to me.





a few weeks later, i get a phone call saying ';how i lied. im going to hit you when i see you. you bullshitted';.





the best friend said i dotn want to speak to you anymore because i lied to break them to up. i was shocked.





a few more weeks later, he tried attacking me but my friend stopped it.





now, i know i didnt lie and i tried to open her eyes because i didnt want to see her upset! theyve broken up again.





what should i do because she is going around tell people, i got a bad name thanks to that slut!Messed up friend situation?
get her to leave him. if she's gonna make a total mess just because you were showing her the light and she was blinded by it, then leave her. besides if she doesn't want him then at least she should stick with you till' she finds someone else. she will be sorry. she'll come back saying sorry. if she doesn't she's probably thinking and weeping about her past and what she should've done. help her make the right choice!Messed up friend situation?
Forget about her, find a new best friend. She'll realize she made a mistake.
honestly, let it ride. You did the right thing and time is on your side. Your friend will come around soon enough.
Wow. Your friend should just give up on that boy. Say thats what he told you and that you were trying to help. And if she says you broke them up remind her, they broke up more than 4 times already. If she cries I guess you should let her but dont feel bad for saying that because you try to help her but she wont listen. If not, apologize and ask her how did you break them up. Because he told you and you told her with EVIDENCE. If you get into a argument put up a good fight if shes listening because even if she gets mad, she'll probably start understanding and realizsing what you were trying to tell her. Heck maybe tell her, ';would you rather date him, not knowing he was cheating on you?'; Just stick up for yourself because friends should listen and trust each other.
I dunno if her boyfriend's word is worth more to her than yours or if you've some other way proved untrustworthy, but the bottom line is that this girl is important to you and she doesn't even trust you. !@#% her. If she won't listen to reason then just let her get cheated on more and more from this dude or whoever. One day she'll realize that all along you were the only one who truly cared about her and at that point you get to tell her to !@#$% off. She had her chance.

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