How do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?

I used to be friends with this girl, Sam, who's currently going out with one of my best friends, Lou. Well Sam is currently a selfish attention whore (with a moustache) whom I hate to the grave and me and my friend Mike want Sam and Lou to break up so bad! Honestly I don't think that Lou even likes Sam and he just goes out with her so he can say to people ';I have a girlfriend';. I know the girl whom he actually has feelings for and its not Sam! How do me and Mike break the two up without being rude or making Lou angry?How do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?
you cant break people up without having some sort of proff the other person is doing something bad.....which you dont. Your friend could get mad at you and your friend for trying to break him up with his girlfriend. Just let it play out they will break up eventuallyHow do you get a friend to break up with someone you hate without being rude, selfish, or evil?
You don't, and trying is all of those things you mentioned and more (that is, rude, selfish, and evil). When your friends are happy in their relationships, ';friendship'; dictates that you be happy for them, even if you don't particularly care for their choice in mates. Why? Because you recognize that it's their choice to make and not yours...that's called respect. One final thought: True hatred is a strong term and I suspect you probably didn't really mean all of that. Hate is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat. Hate destroys everything in its path, so choose your words carefully, especially ones you don't mean because they ALL have energy.
Unless Sam is causing friction between you and Lou, its none of your dang business on how he conducts his life.


You may not even know all that is going on between Lou and Sam...have you tried to ask Lou what he sees in her and why he still hangs with her?





Maybe if you ask him, he may enlighten you on some things you had failed to notice.
DONT GET INVOLVED IN OTHER PEOPLE'S LOVE LIFES! you would think that most people would know that. you are being selfish, rude and you would be being evil if you did that!