How to get your friend to break up with her boyfriend and go out with you?

I have a friend who is going got with a guy who is complete wrong and mean to her. Still she is blind I want to help her see. There is so many other guys out there right for her, like me. I'm not saying she should be with me but if he could that would be a plus. I just want her to be happy. And she isn't happy, but she is staying with him for some reason.How to get your friend to break up with her boyfriend and go out with you?
You may just have to wait your turn, because chances are she will not see it your way. If the guy is a jerk, it will come out eventually and when she needs a shoulder to cry on because of it, just be there to lend your shoulder, the clean up man.How to get your friend to break up with her boyfriend and go out with you?
I see these situations all the time. Unfortunately, the outlook is not good for you. You'll only get frustrated trying to change her mind. You can't.





A lot of women go for guys that are jerks. It's a challenge for them to try and change them into nice respectable people. It's the way they validate the power of their p*ssies. Unfortunately, they get sucked into the lie that they really can change them. Of course, they can't, and they are blind to that fact. Meanwhile, they go through a lot of abuse as the jerk off winds up taking advantage of them.





She's going to go through several relationships just like this one before she finally realizes she has this sick obession. In the meantime, do yourself a favor and walk away. Realize, you're also a candidate for becoming involved in an unhealthy obsession, the obsession of trying to save someone you can't.
If he's abusing her, then there's only one thing to do: beat the son of a ***** to a bloody pulp! Men like that are the scum of the goddamn earth, and if they can't treat a woman right, then they don't deserve one. She's probably only staying with him out of fear. So, if you really wanna help her, break out a 2 x 4 and beat his ***.
you have the right intention, now just go about it right. talk to her, share your concern.


wait.


wait.


wait.


if they break up, be there for her, and perhaps then you two could be together. dont rush anything, after talking to her dont push her. wait.
Tell your friend how you feel. Tell her you think that she is a great girl and deserves more then the guy she is with right now.She might not be happy to hear it, so just let her know that you care a lot about her and you will always be there if she needs you. Don't try to break them up- that's not nice- just be a good friend and be patient for now, your time will come.Good luck!
Prqy for her....but stay of out it...








You should get her the book








Too Close Too Soon Avoiding The Heartache Of Premature Intimacy by Jim Talley
if you once talked to her about it, and she didnt listen, then let her be in her mess then she'll eventualy know she deserves someone better over time and leave this mean dude. that way you're acctualy doing her a good deed. cuz she needs to be a better person through her mistakes. so let her be. but stay be her sides.
How do you know she is unhappy? Unless she states the fact there is not really anything you can do. Just be there to support her if the relationship is not working out and hope she sees what kind of friend you can be to her.
There is nothing you can do. She has to figure it all out for herself I'm afraid. The more you say to try to break her away from him the more you could drive her away from you. I guess she just has to get hurt by this guy a few more things before she opens her eyes. Just be a good friend to her and listen to her but with any advice that you choose to give, just make sure it is asked for and always word it in such a way that she has her own choices to make. Be supportive without sounding controlling.
you should tell her exactly what you told us. tell her how you feel.
Just have a heart to heart with her one day. Tell her why you feel that this guy is wrong for her. Dont bring up the whole you liking her yet. Or else she will think that is the only reason why you like that other guy.





Dont make them break up though. And dont make him break up with her. That would hurt her even more. YOur best bet is to try to show her that he is not right for her. Let her know that you dont like him and she might eventually ask why. Then you can have your heart to heart.. GOOD LUCK
ur a bi*ch
OMG same prob with me but in girl way.


Well you talk to her about it .and tell her the complete


truth.Also if you see the guy doing something bad BINGO you tell her and hopefully shell break up.


Email me and tell me how it goes if youd like or need more adive


-Elina
if its meant to be that relationship will end and yall will be together :)





';but only if its meant to be';