Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to Break up with a Gay Friend without Hurting his Feelings?

I have a friend named Johannes. We've been best friends since the age of 9 and I never had any idea that he was gay until this year.





He recently asked me out, but I am scared to tell him that in reality, I am straight.








I love him deeply, though my love is only a brotherly love.





How do I reject his proposal without hurting our beautiful friendship? I want to stay friends with him for the rest of my life.How to Break up with a Gay Friend without Hurting his Feelings?
If he is your friend then he deserves the honest truth. Just tell him sorry but your straight. He will understand. He can't help who he cares for and neither can you. If he doesn't want to be your friend anymore then that is his problem. But on the other hand...make sure you don't judge him for his sexuality either.How to Break up with a Gay Friend without Hurting his Feelings?
dude. tell him the truth. if he truly loves you like you love him; he'll understand. just like when you understood when he told you he's gay. be open.
You can not break up with someone you arn't dating.





If he asked you out, just say, ';sorry, I'm not into guys that way'; or ';sorry I'm straight';, and ';I love you like a friend or a brother';





If you two are best friends, this should be no problem.
Since he is you friend, you can talk to him. Tell him you think the world of him and the friendship you have together, and you always want to be the best of friends, but you must decline his offer unless it is out just as friends, since you are straight. Tell him that you two will always be friends, no matter what happens.
You owe it to yourself and to him to just be honest about your feelings.
Take him to a nice quiet hangout spot. There u will have all the privacy etc that u need. Then start by telling him how u feel about him as a friend. Then say that it can't go any further than that because ur straight. Then say something complimentary like ';if i were gay i would go for u any day'; (of course only say this if u want to). Then tell him that u don't wanna lose him as a friend because u care about him so much and well then just talk it through.





Wishing u all my luck


Love


Sheldon
Tell him just what you have told us here.





You're are both fortunate to have each other as friends.
dont have anything to do with him.
i think you should say, im sorry if i have led you on at all, and i do really like you and dont want anything to change between us,but im pretty sure im straight, try and make him feel less rejected, and say something funny. nd the truth is he made a big step asking you out like that and hes brobably really really worried that he ruined your relationship.and this is one of thoes things that wil change a relationship no matter what. the only way fo salvage it is hang out with him, and make new memories. goodluck
Tell him that you care for him a lot but you don't like him in a more than friendship way. Just be really nice about it if you want to stay friends with him.
TELL HIM/HER THAT YOU FOUND JESUS AND CAN'T LIVE THIS LIFESTYLE ANYMORE.
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