my girlfriend has a weird problem with a freaky pee and poop fetish and i don't know how to tell her I'm not into that stuff. and now she wants to try animal stuff....should i break up with her or what?Should I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
um if you are ok with her doing that
to you then don't break up with her
but if she does or wants to do that to you
often then i think you shouldShould I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
I'd find a girl that isn't into feet, and pee pee and ****. But it's up to you. That is a dirty girl. Find a good girl that likes it rough and won't get a raccoon to piss on you.
Its really your desicion. give the relationship more time
tell her she need her and you are going to send to consluer
Friday, August 20, 2010
When you have to break up with a friend?
I have recently made a decision to break up with a person who has been my friend for seventeen years. She has been there for me as I have been for her and we have gone through so much together. Three years ago she hit hard times because of choices she made which I had been against and had tried to advise her on. Despite this I have supported her paying her rent and bills when I could but I have reached a point where I cant take it anymore and told her I could not pay her bills anymore. She has started going to my workplace borrowing money from my collegues and bad mouthing me for not being there for her. I have formalised our break up and told her why I cant be friends with her anymore. I am so saddened by this. Meanwhile she continues to bad mouth me for failing to help her. She will talk to anyone who wants to listen. I feel very let down. How do I ensure she stops talking about me and going to people I know asking for money?When you have to break up with a friend?
As a friend you went BEYOND the call of duty!
She took major advantage of you. She is a user looking for a victim. Speak to your collegues and let them know NOT to lend her money. She has no job so she CAN NOT pay them back, and you are not going to pay them back either. Tell her to stop coming around or you will have to get a restraining order.
Unfortunately, some people mistake kindness for weakness. Don't let her do this to you, take a stand!
Best of luck!When you have to break up with a friend?
You can't stop her from talking about you. Who cares, talk is cheap. As far as asking people for money, tell them your experience and let them figure it out for themselves. If your not like she says, people who work around you everyday will know that she is lying. It won't last long, trust me.
It is not your job to pay her bills! If she keeps going on like this you will not even be helping her. She will grow up to rely on others and depend on others. Tell her why it is wrong. Don't feel bed, you are doing the right thing! Good luck :)
As a friend you went BEYOND the call of duty!
She took major advantage of you. She is a user looking for a victim. Speak to your collegues and let them know NOT to lend her money. She has no job so she CAN NOT pay them back, and you are not going to pay them back either. Tell her to stop coming around or you will have to get a restraining order.
Unfortunately, some people mistake kindness for weakness. Don't let her do this to you, take a stand!
Best of luck!When you have to break up with a friend?
You can't stop her from talking about you. Who cares, talk is cheap. As far as asking people for money, tell them your experience and let them figure it out for themselves. If your not like she says, people who work around you everyday will know that she is lying. It won't last long, trust me.
It is not your job to pay her bills! If she keeps going on like this you will not even be helping her. She will grow up to rely on others and depend on others. Tell her why it is wrong. Don't feel bed, you are doing the right thing! Good luck :)
How can I survive a break-up ith a friend?
She sent me text messages and emails saying ';I'm done with you!'; Also before the letter she gave me a Christmas present. Should I return it to her? Plus I don't know what to do know.How can I survive a break-up ith a friend?
well would be nicer to return it to her,because in my opinion you wouldn't deserve the gift for whatever you have done.How can I survive a break-up ith a friend?
Keep the present. A gift is a gift. If you don't have a clue what you did wrong, maybe you should ask? It could be a total misconception that can easily be explained. If it really is over, deal with it and move on. You may be sad for a while and right before Christmas is a bad time for a break up, but you will get over it. Apparently, she is not the right person for you and it is time to look for someone who is.
Maybe she over reacted. Don't return the gift.. because that way you are showing her that you are done with her too. Keep the gift, and after you opened it, tell her how much you appreciate it. Be very nice about it.. If you want to be friends with her, kill her with your kindness. Be nice to her, even if she is mean to you. Because if she is mean, and your mean to her back , it pushes you further away from each other.
And if you stay nice to her, even if she's mean it will reach a point where she will start feeling bad because yo don't fight back. Be the better person in the situation. Its the best way to win her back.
Plus if if makes you feel any better, friends cant just be done with each other. Because they are friends. Friendship isn't just a button you turn on and off. It slowly grows and slowly dies. And there's always a way to save it.
So say sorry if you did something wrong, and let her know you're there if she needs you. And stay very nice to her. I know it can be hard, but its very important if you want to win her back.
Best of luck
=D
don't give that ***** shi't, she hurts you and wants a gift
First off, I'm really sorry... I know what it feels like and how much it hurts.
I'm sort-of going through the same thing now, so I can only tell you what I know in my situation.
I kinda ****** up, by making out with her EX-boyfriend while really drunk. For me it was absolutely no big deal, but she's made a huge drama out of it.
Now she says that she can't be friends with anymore, because it ';hurts too much'; or something.
Anyway: Now I'm even better friends with the guy and have found more friends.
I don't hurt anymore, because I think about the fact, that she apparently feels that making a huge deal out of practically nothing is more important than the friendship. I think about how, if she REALLY were my best friend, she would understand and be friends with me, just simply because we are friends.
I also think about how she always needs to be in control of the situation and in this case, she can't be.
I hope you are getting my drift; Think about why your friend broke up with you, think about if she deserves you as a friend and then try to make your decision about trying to save the friendship (or not). Remember: don't go to far. Only do as much as you CAN (of course if you want to) and don't try to follow her around and don't let her be the boss of you. Nobody deserves that!
I really wish you the best of luck!
Don't lose hope or yourself and remind yourself who should deserve to be your friend and what true friendship means to you. Oh and by the way: don't try to get nostalgic feelings, anger or sadness get in the way of your objective point of view needed for this decision.
And one other thing (not trying to influence you in any way but): In my opinion she is quite a coward not telling you straight-forward that she is ';done with you';. But I don't know her....
Merry Xmas!
well would be nicer to return it to her,because in my opinion you wouldn't deserve the gift for whatever you have done.How can I survive a break-up ith a friend?
Keep the present. A gift is a gift. If you don't have a clue what you did wrong, maybe you should ask? It could be a total misconception that can easily be explained. If it really is over, deal with it and move on. You may be sad for a while and right before Christmas is a bad time for a break up, but you will get over it. Apparently, she is not the right person for you and it is time to look for someone who is.
Maybe she over reacted. Don't return the gift.. because that way you are showing her that you are done with her too. Keep the gift, and after you opened it, tell her how much you appreciate it. Be very nice about it.. If you want to be friends with her, kill her with your kindness. Be nice to her, even if she is mean to you. Because if she is mean, and your mean to her back , it pushes you further away from each other.
And if you stay nice to her, even if she's mean it will reach a point where she will start feeling bad because yo don't fight back. Be the better person in the situation. Its the best way to win her back.
Plus if if makes you feel any better, friends cant just be done with each other. Because they are friends. Friendship isn't just a button you turn on and off. It slowly grows and slowly dies. And there's always a way to save it.
So say sorry if you did something wrong, and let her know you're there if she needs you. And stay very nice to her. I know it can be hard, but its very important if you want to win her back.
Best of luck
=D
don't give that ***** shi't, she hurts you and wants a gift
First off, I'm really sorry... I know what it feels like and how much it hurts.
I'm sort-of going through the same thing now, so I can only tell you what I know in my situation.
I kinda ****** up, by making out with her EX-boyfriend while really drunk. For me it was absolutely no big deal, but she's made a huge drama out of it.
Now she says that she can't be friends with anymore, because it ';hurts too much'; or something.
Anyway: Now I'm even better friends with the guy and have found more friends.
I don't hurt anymore, because I think about the fact, that she apparently feels that making a huge deal out of practically nothing is more important than the friendship. I think about how, if she REALLY were my best friend, she would understand and be friends with me, just simply because we are friends.
I also think about how she always needs to be in control of the situation and in this case, she can't be.
I hope you are getting my drift; Think about why your friend broke up with you, think about if she deserves you as a friend and then try to make your decision about trying to save the friendship (or not). Remember: don't go to far. Only do as much as you CAN (of course if you want to) and don't try to follow her around and don't let her be the boss of you. Nobody deserves that!
I really wish you the best of luck!
Don't lose hope or yourself and remind yourself who should deserve to be your friend and what true friendship means to you. Oh and by the way: don't try to get nostalgic feelings, anger or sadness get in the way of your objective point of view needed for this decision.
And one other thing (not trying to influence you in any way but): In my opinion she is quite a coward not telling you straight-forward that she is ';done with you';. But I don't know her....
Merry Xmas!
How can I break up with a friend?
i have this friend. lets call her Tessa. anyways Tessa and i are ok friends. recently though tessa has been getting on all of our nerves. she is an embarrassment to bring out in public with us, she acts very immature she also lies to me and some of our friends about what she does. for instants she told one of my friends that me and her watch america's got talent every week, but little did she no the girl that she told watches that tv show with me every week. now that we are getting older it is harder for us to get along with her. i just want some help so that my friends and i can kind of break up with her. i just dont no what to do about it anymore. its to the point where we all just dont want to see her. if you could help that would be great!How can I break up with a friend?
Its hard to break up with friends. Maybe make plans with other friends that also don't like Tessa, that way you could both be away from her at the same time. I know this sounds bad, but make up excuses like ';I'm going to eat dinner'; or ';I was just about to go biking';, you know. But every once in a while, hang out with her so it doesn't look like your avoiding her. And when you do play together, try not to do something exciting so that you don't want to go back to her home again. In a few weeks, she will get the point and move on to make other friends.How can I break up with a friend?
dont be mean
the best way is if u go and talk to her
i mean there must be something in her that u like
that probably why u became friends with her
first talk to her
but if shes the same then just tell her u cant do this anymore
but its better u not to txt and say it straight to straight
but be nice
just slowly stop talking to her and dont be as niced and dont be two faced
Its hard to break up with friends. Maybe make plans with other friends that also don't like Tessa, that way you could both be away from her at the same time. I know this sounds bad, but make up excuses like ';I'm going to eat dinner'; or ';I was just about to go biking';, you know. But every once in a while, hang out with her so it doesn't look like your avoiding her. And when you do play together, try not to do something exciting so that you don't want to go back to her home again. In a few weeks, she will get the point and move on to make other friends.How can I break up with a friend?
dont be mean
the best way is if u go and talk to her
i mean there must be something in her that u like
that probably why u became friends with her
first talk to her
but if shes the same then just tell her u cant do this anymore
but its better u not to txt and say it straight to straight
but be nice
just slowly stop talking to her and dont be as niced and dont be two faced
I have a friend who I feel I need to break up with? How do you break up with a friend?
I have this friend. Some of the things she does I just absolutely do not agree with. She has certain morals that she stands by and to me they are just not right. Basically like a ';Let them learn from their mistakes'; thing, where as I believe that if a situation in preventable, why not prevent it from happening and save them the heartache and BE A GOOD FRIEND? And it's not like the relationship that this person is in is the best thing in the whole damn world, but what can I do? They're married. I don't know. I've been majorly stabbed in the back before by someone else and I am crossing a threshold into a friendship that I feel guilty about being in. My fiance doesn't condone the friendship, and I know that he has a pretty good judgement of character. He has known her for just about the same amount of time that I have, he just ended up not communicating with her any longer because of something that she had done to him a while back. She always makes me feel like back and fourth in this friendship how sometimes she makes me want to be friends, but sometimes I realllllllly don't want to! And I feel like I am just the convienent friend. My problem is that I know I should get out of this friendship, but my problem is that I don't want to hurt anyone. I feel badly enough as it is. Is it possible to ';break up'; with a friend? I honestly have though about this for a while. I don't want this friendship to be rekindled afterwards. It's just not going to work out. I don't know what to do or how to come about it...I have a friend who I feel I need to break up with? How do you break up with a friend?
hopefully these will help. sorry i have personal experience with this
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You don't want to hurt anyone except yourself? If her friendship is this painful and so destructive she needs to know about it and if you don't want any of your other relationships to suffer get away from her. You break up with a friend the same way as a boyfriend - a talking session to clarify your position and setting boundaries then ignoring them. Sorry
hopefully these will help. sorry i have personal experience with this
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You don't want to hurt anyone except yourself? If her friendship is this painful and so destructive she needs to know about it and if you don't want any of your other relationships to suffer get away from her. You break up with a friend the same way as a boyfriend - a talking session to clarify your position and setting boundaries then ignoring them. Sorry
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
How can i break up with my friend Katie? I'm 11 years old and a girl?
Katie is really rude. she pushes me and shoves me! She's a huge fan of Disney channel (i'm not) her parent's and my parents are good friends because of church.and she makes a HUGE fool of herself in front of the whole class! Me and katie are known as ';the losers'; of the school because, some people says that's she weird and ugly and wears ugly clothes! (all true). but i was popular cause' i was so nice 2 other people and i hang out some my true friends i known since young and they're popular! I known Katie since 2nd grade but i hated her so much, then we were in the same class together in 4th grade we were friends. but in 5 grade the female teacher's were talking about growing up (puberty) and one of the teachers mentioned having new friends. could this be also a good time to break up with my friend? (hurry! I'M CRYING)How can i break up with my friend Katie? I'm 11 years old and a girl?
I can remember what being 11 was like. I was the unpopular friend that got ditched. My best friend told me that she couldn't be my friend anymore because my clothes were too old. (I had an older sister, so I wore a lot of hand-me-downs; because my parents didn't have a lot of money) If your only reason for not wanting to be her friend is because you want to be popular and she's not, that is kind of cruel. And I can tell you right now, you will regret loosing her friendship in the long run. Just because people are popular does not mean they will make good friends.
If you want to end your friendship because she's not very nice to you; I would recommend talking to her about it first. Maybe she doesn't realize that what she does is rude to you, or she might not realize that pushing bothers you. Try talking to her, and telling her about the things that bother you.
Your teacher is right, as people grow up, we do make new friends. But it's also important to keep the old ones. If you are nice to everyone then that's a good thing, but if you want to be nice to everyone, that includes Katie.
Being popular is a good thing, if you do it by being nice to people, but if you're mean to people who aren't popular, then it's not a good thing at all. The best way to be popular is to be friends with everyone. The people who call you ';losers'; now will be popular for a while, but when they grow up, people wont like them because they are mean. But the people who are popular because they are nice to everyone and treat everyone fairly will be popular forever, expecially as adults.How can i break up with my friend Katie? I'm 11 years old and a girl?
Just because your parents and Katie's parents are friends is not a good enough reason for you and her to be friends.If it bothers you that she's weird, ugly and wears ugly clothes, then break the friendship. I suggest that you see the teacher who spoke about growing up/ or a school counsellor, and talk to her about your problem.You need to let her know that she is rude to you.You can have new friends and still keep the old.
I've been where you are, and it's not okay to ditch a friend just because she isn't popular. but if you guys arent compatible as friends and if she isnt nice and friendly toward you it would be acceptable to politely tell her you'd like to spend less time together. just be nice about it. good luck.
If you don't wanna be her friend because she's not popular, then you're not really a good friend. Once you reach high school, you two might not even be friends anymore. Let the splitting up come naturally. Maybe, she doesn't like you back too?
longer you wait
the harder it will be to do
jsut tell her that you dont like her and you dont want to be friends
easy as that
don't b rude back just hang out with another friend if she comes back 2 u just say that she was mean and if shes gonna b like that yu don't wanna b her friend
just ignore her n dnt tell her anythin
Then dont be friends with her just say I've moved on.
I can remember what being 11 was like. I was the unpopular friend that got ditched. My best friend told me that she couldn't be my friend anymore because my clothes were too old. (I had an older sister, so I wore a lot of hand-me-downs; because my parents didn't have a lot of money) If your only reason for not wanting to be her friend is because you want to be popular and she's not, that is kind of cruel. And I can tell you right now, you will regret loosing her friendship in the long run. Just because people are popular does not mean they will make good friends.
If you want to end your friendship because she's not very nice to you; I would recommend talking to her about it first. Maybe she doesn't realize that what she does is rude to you, or she might not realize that pushing bothers you. Try talking to her, and telling her about the things that bother you.
Your teacher is right, as people grow up, we do make new friends. But it's also important to keep the old ones. If you are nice to everyone then that's a good thing, but if you want to be nice to everyone, that includes Katie.
Being popular is a good thing, if you do it by being nice to people, but if you're mean to people who aren't popular, then it's not a good thing at all. The best way to be popular is to be friends with everyone. The people who call you ';losers'; now will be popular for a while, but when they grow up, people wont like them because they are mean. But the people who are popular because they are nice to everyone and treat everyone fairly will be popular forever, expecially as adults.How can i break up with my friend Katie? I'm 11 years old and a girl?
Just because your parents and Katie's parents are friends is not a good enough reason for you and her to be friends.If it bothers you that she's weird, ugly and wears ugly clothes, then break the friendship. I suggest that you see the teacher who spoke about growing up/ or a school counsellor, and talk to her about your problem.You need to let her know that she is rude to you.You can have new friends and still keep the old.
I've been where you are, and it's not okay to ditch a friend just because she isn't popular. but if you guys arent compatible as friends and if she isnt nice and friendly toward you it would be acceptable to politely tell her you'd like to spend less time together. just be nice about it. good luck.
If you don't wanna be her friend because she's not popular, then you're not really a good friend. Once you reach high school, you two might not even be friends anymore. Let the splitting up come naturally. Maybe, she doesn't like you back too?
longer you wait
the harder it will be to do
jsut tell her that you dont like her and you dont want to be friends
easy as that
don't b rude back just hang out with another friend if she comes back 2 u just say that she was mean and if shes gonna b like that yu don't wanna b her friend
just ignore her n dnt tell her anythin
Then dont be friends with her just say I've moved on.
My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore? *details*?
we broke up and his friend just sent me a message saying he noticed im single now and asked how my ex is doing.. hes never talked to me before through email. im pretty much done with my ex and dont care to keep any contact. should i respond? as a friend or straight to the point of his questions? or not at all?
my ex and i were together for 4 years. and this guy is an old good friend of my exs from like middle school. i really didn't think he was interested. and i have zero interest in him. at all! It's been about 1 1/2 month since the break up and im over it. i dont want to talk to my ex really ever. i just thought i shouldn't be such a ';B'; to his friend when he didnt do anything wrong since we have hung out in a group from time to time. but, without my ex, i doubt i would really ever talk to him at all. i never considered him ';my'; friend but ';his';. and i dont even care to try to use this guy to get back at my ex.My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore? *details*?
i rekon you should reply %26amp; do both, like tell him what he asked you %26amp; then say ';anywyaz how are you?'; kinda thing. You might as well just answer the thing.My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore? *details*?
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my ex and i were together for 4 years. and this guy is an old good friend of my exs from like middle school. i really didn't think he was interested. and i have zero interest in him. at all! It's been about 1 1/2 month since the break up and im over it. i dont want to talk to my ex really ever. i just thought i shouldn't be such a ';B'; to his friend when he didnt do anything wrong since we have hung out in a group from time to time. but, without my ex, i doubt i would really ever talk to him at all. i never considered him ';my'; friend but ';his';. and i dont even care to try to use this guy to get back at my ex.My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore? *details*?
i rekon you should reply %26amp; do both, like tell him what he asked you %26amp; then say ';anywyaz how are you?'; kinda thing. You might as well just answer the thing.My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore? *details*?
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