Monday, August 9, 2010

My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?

we broke up and his friend just sent me a message saying he noticed im single now and asked how my ex is doing.. hes never talked to me before through email. im pretty much done with my ex and dont care to keep any contact. should i respond? as a friend or straight to the point of his questions? and not at all?My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?
He's doing some spying for your ex, not trying to hook up with you. :-)





Just say that you're doing great and last you heard your ex was doing fine, too. Then tell him that you're not keeping in touch with the ex, so the friend should talk to him himself.





Seriously, saying, ';Hey, yeah, X and I broke up. I'm doing great. I don't really talk to X anymore, so you should probably drop him line if you want to hang out with him or something. Bye!'; Is pretty much perfect. If it gets back to your ex (which is a fair probability) it doesn't indicate that you really care at all. If the friend is trying to hook up with you (gross), it gives him absolutely no reason to think that you're interested. If it's perfectly innocent (the guy didn't know), you're not being a jerk. My exboyfriends friend emailed me after our break up. Should I reply or ignore?
Why is he asking you how your ex is doing seeing as how he is a friend of his and your ex is your ex, not current, boyfriend. So how would you know how he is doing? Sounds a bit strange, almost like a 'you contact her and see how she feels about me' situation. Maybe not, but that's what it seems like. You need to weigh up the pros and cons of how a friendship with this 'friend of' may pan out, seeing as how you say you don't care to keep any contact with your ex.
Don't reply at all because it will only cause drama with your ex.If you don't think there is a chance at getting back with him,why talk to HIS friend?Or just tell him you don't feel comfortable talking to him since you guys are broken up now and to please not message you again.
Email is safe. Just make it clear if you are not interested and let him know that. However, if you ARE interrested, then atleast he was kool enough to not try and pursue you DURING your relationship. That is respectable in my book; maybe not where he and your ex's friendship are concerned though, you know the guy 'pact'. I say take it slow if you do though, otherwise, I personally would respond as a friend--why not!?
Its weird, but sometimes people have to switch around a little to get the right people together. If you like him, maybe it would go well. Maybe your ex's only purpose was to let you and this other guy meet, its strange how things like that work sometimes.
There is no point in responding to that. If he knows you're broken up, why's he asking about the ex? Very strange. Just ignore him.
if you like him, you should reply. If not,ignore him
Respond gal if u don't he will think you rude...xx
thats just morally wrong..if anything happens, be sure to at least ask ur ex 1st
hell no thats f*cked up hes gonna do his boy like that hell no dont even respond to that low life. wtf??? hes tryin to pick up on sloppy seconds and that will start a fight between ur x and him

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