Should we break up? What's your opinion on this situation?

Hello there,





Six months before my boyfriend of two years and I met, he was close friends with two girls. During our relationship, he told me he had broke off all ties with them, but for about a year he was talking to them in secret which I later found out about. For the past year, he's tried to convince me there is no more contact with these girls; however, they like to text and call him all the time. He reacts to these by ignoring them. He told me he wants nothing to do with these girls and wishes they would leave him alone, and told me he ignores their calls because it's his way of dealing with the situation and eventually they will leave him alone. It's been a year or so though and they still haven't got the picture. Tonight we were at a concert and the two girls waved at him, so he waved back. consequently they approached us and began talking to him about their new apartment and how he should come over for dinner because they make dinner every night. He dealt with it as if they were an old friend he hadn't talked to in a long time, smiling, etc. The conversation concluded by them saying it was good to see him again and him responding ';It's good to see you again too';





What is your advice on this situation? Initially, I threatened to break up with him because I couldn't believe he was so happy and fake with these girls, if he really ';wants them out of his life';. I told him I think he needs to be honest with these girls if he really wants them out of our life becuase I feel not only is it unfair to them, and me, but also that they have no way of knowing his intentions if he doesn't tell them.





I would like an outside opinion, because I believe the way this situation was handled was very improper, and my boyfriend said he has done nothing wrong here because that's ';how he deals with problems in person';. He says it's because he doesn't do well with confrontation and is shy. Please help!Should we break up? What's your opinion on this situation?
Honestly I think you aren't at the point in your life where you have enough self-confidence to deal with a relationship. BF says he cares about you, not them. If you can't deal with that, then find someone new.Should we break up? What's your opinion on this situation?
you should break up!


but first you need to look for a break up song
I would contact these girls, YOURSELF.


Tell him that you really want a relationship with him, but these girls are getting in the way.


Is he really likes you, %26amp; isn't using you, etc. He should follow you every step of the way.


Best regards.





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I would tell him that it really bothers you! What he should do is tell them to leave him alone in a polite way, not be fake to them because they wont get the picture! Then he should change his cell number so they will stop calling him. If he really had a problem with those ladies calling him he would have done something about it by now instead of blowing it off. You should tell him how you feel and if he doesn't comply then maybe you should break up with him.