How do I break up my best friend and her boyfriend secretly?

My best friend's boyfriend is a total jerk in my eyes and she needs to break up with this dude. I want to break them up but I don't want our own relationship to end. We really care for each other, and I constantly remind her that I hate him, but she just doesn't listen. She's the only person in the world that doesn't realise how much of a jerk he is. Can anyone pleaaaassseee help????? I would really appreciate it....How do I break up my best friend and her boyfriend secretly?
i know this will sound like conspiring but you need to catch him out-in the act of being a jerk. get proof somehow, undeniable proof that he really is a jerk,





and also if u r just telling ur m8 that u h8 her boi then she might b starting to get p.i.s.s.e.d off, i know i wood, not saying that u shouldnt but maybe sit her down and talk to her about the sitch and how and why u want to help,





when she realises that he really i a jerk she will come crwling back to you.





hope that helps


:-%26gt;How do I break up my best friend and her boyfriend secretly?
maybe she realises her boyfriend is a jerk but just doesn't want to break up with him because of the single moments he isn't, or for the company. introduce her to other guys, and she'll realise that there are better guys.
just leave it alone she will figure it out
That's none of your business!!
you dont. this is not your life. it is hers. you can only control what goes on in your life and sometimes not even that. if she is your best friend, then let her make her own decisions and mistakes and just be a friend by standing by her side.
that's nice that you care but if you dont mind your own business you'll eventually hurt your friend in the end. But then again she might get hurt because of this so called ';jerk';, it really depends in what situation his a jerk.
What excatly does he do? If he's taking her away from you more confront her abotu that. GIrls your age throw the jerk label around like its a hacky sack. Sounds like the problem is with her?
Unless he is abusing her its none of your business. If he is abusing her and she's underage tell her parents or someone obligated to report it like a teacher.





If he's not abusing her and you just don't like him, stay the heck out of her business!
I know how you feel. I have plenty of friends, and my own brother I feel I want to do this to. In fact, I feel the same way about my parents. my mom stays with my dad who cheats on her.. and I try very hard to get her to leave!


I haven't found any way of this working.. unfortunately.


People say it's none of our business, but we know better:) (sarcasm). I would say that you keep her as a friend, but don't rely on her as your ONLY friend. I know I have a problem with this. I get caught up in a few people, and then when they find a relationship, and I don't have one, I get 'stuck' without a friend, and feeling very left out. You are right for feeling upset or concerned if your friend is dating a jerk/loser... HOWEVER, unfortunately, there's nothing you can or SHOULD do.


Take care of YOURSELF. Don't let your friends' relationship interfere with having your own life.
don't be mean to her. let her figure it out on her own
have you ever heard that luv is blind.maybe she really luvs him n thts the reason tht she is still wth him even if hez a jerk.so be a gud frnd n bear wth it .