HOW DO I GET MY BEST FRIEND TO BREAK UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND.?

Her boyfriend is a compete dick and cant treat her right but she continues to see him. what do i do about it.? i don't want her to get hurt.HOW DO I GET MY BEST FRIEND TO BREAK UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND.?
WEll you could sleep with him or get somebody else to do it then take pics of it, put it on myspace then let her decide for herself, I know that sounds evil but it is a good idea; you have to give me that! LOL!HOW DO I GET MY BEST FRIEND TO BREAK UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND.?
anything you do will backfire in your face. She is sadly, blinded to his many defects and if you constantly bad mouth him, she will take it personally and against you. I know you don't want your friend to be hurt but she will have to make the decision. Instead of badmouthing him, let her know that no matter what you are there for her regardless. If you badmouth she will lose you as a friend and then, if she does breakup with him, she will have lost him and you....and you obviously care for her...be strong...
You dont do anything! Let her make her mistakes on her own, because if u try to break them up because you care about her, she will only end up being mad at you. She knows that her boyfriend is a dick and cant treat her right and she continues to be with him. If she gets hurt its her own fault and there is nothing that you should or could do. But u could talk to her about how he treats her. Good luck!
you can't, just keep that to yourself! you will end up driving her away from you. just be there for her to vent too. also don't throw your thoughts on her when she is talking to you. just be there. trust me, i was in the same situation years ago (im 35 now) and i caused mine to quit talking to me and coming around, she clung to him more. but in the end they are divorced now, she had to learn on her own. we can't say how they should think and feel! best wishes!!!! hang in there!
I know it's hard to not be able to do anything about your friends relationship. but one big thing you can do is stay by her side and hope she learns the first time. if you ever see him hit her you call the cops no matter what she says do it i know from personal experiences and all it did was get worst tell her she deserves better any female dose, tell her i said it starts with yelling then jealousy i know i wasn't much help but just worried and it caught my eye.
You don't. And if you try, you are going to drive a wedge between you and her. She is going to have to realize herself that it is not a good situation. The only thing you can do is still be her friend and be there for her when she needs it - sounds like she is going to need it. Don't judge her and don't try to push her.
wow in this case i can relate to your best friend


mine treats me like that but i continue seeing him too





my sister/best friend tells me to leave him





so what your friend must feel for him is that she loves/likes him alot or thinks she does but you need to open her eyes and let her know that he isnt valuing her for what shes really worth and tell her things like that but im sorry to say that when you are as blind as me or maybe her too.....sometimes it gets worse...you dont listen to no one but yourself and we end up more hurt.....but thats how we LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES
Hello..





The best thing you can do is to tell your best friend.


And if you have tried that speak to her boy friend


And if you have done that and they don't brake up she is likely to get hert, And if she does thats her fault,, you tried to warn her.


I hope this helps =)


I hope everything goes okay.
tell her how u feel but be prepared for a reply like u r just jealous cos that is what u will get. tell her u think she can do much better. but u may lose a gf over it. come on to her bf and show what a jerk he is. but then u will lose her asa gf. do u see a pattern here? it is up to her to want to break up. not u to rule her life for her. good luck
Nothing that won't end your friendship. This is something she'll have to figure out on her own. Talk badly about him to her and she'll only get mad at you. It sucks that she is going through this but the only reason I would say you should get involved is if he's abusive. Then, to hell with her getting mad or not.
As a friend all you can really do is tell her how you feel about it. You can't force them to break up or anything. But I think that if you're nice about it and everything and just tell her how you feel about it, she will take what you say into consideration.
as a friend you should tell her how you feel but from then on what she does is her business and nobody elses. soon enough if what your saying is true shell see for herself that the guys not worth it. dont get too pushy with her coz you may cause a fight. just let her know briefly you dont approve then drop it. coz after all its her life
I'm going through the same exact thing...





Just keep talking to her but always remember that it's her decision and obviously she like it.





If she wont break up with him just go along with it.


Don't act like your life is hers.. just warn her what might happen.
you can try your hardest to just talk to her about it. i was her in my last relationship and i didnt see the real him and i didnt believe anyone. So its really up to her but you can try. make sure to stick by her side though...





good luck



The only thing you can do would be to talk to her about your concerns. If she doesn't listen then that's it, let her learn from her own mistake. It's her choice, her life. You can't MAKE anyone do anything.
You can't do much unless you are willing to give up your friendship over it.
There isn't anything you can do....trust in God.


Blessings,


Charity Houstons%26amp; Kitty Spuurm-Houstons
Talk to her about him. Even though you don't like him and don't think he's good enough for her she may still love him and its her choice. As they say, love is blind :)
If she doesn't listen to your ';advice,'; mind your own business and let her make her own mistakes. Maybe she likes the way he treats her?
let her deal wit it but just ask her if she's happy? that will get her but to break them up its a little off the top semms like jelousy
if she's with him she obviously likes him so why you worried she's choosing her own pain so let her be :D !
well tell her how u feel. she will listen to u if yall are really bestfriend but sumtime its best to keep your mouth shut kuz ur friend mite think that u are hating on their relationship
I agree with everyone before me.
It's none of your business - stay out of it.
It's none of your business, that's her choice. She'll see in the end.
erm, its up to her whether she breaks up with him or not, and you cannot do anything. sorry!
talk to her!
i think you are jealous
tell her that he kissed some girl and try to catch him in the act and make sure she's with u at all times!