Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you ';break up'; with a friend who is a negative?

I made friends with someone in an organization I belong to and it was somewhat of a casual relationship but we did get together to do to things outside of the meetings. However, I can no longer stand to be around her since all she does is compalin and talk trash about everyone in the group. I want to cut my ties with her but I will see her at each meeting and I don't want a confrontation. How do I ease out of this?How do you ';break up'; with a friend who is a negative?
U know, the BEST thing 2 do IS 2 take this person aside %26amp; have a private discussion about this issue. tell this person how U feel about how they slander others, %26amp; I'd find out Y they do it, %26amp; help them 2 discover ways 2 resolve whatever it is they have against others. if NOT confronted, this will only worsten. I don't like confrontation either, but sometimes it MUST B done. this is often the ONLY way 2 stop bad behavior/speech in its trax. just B gentle about it, %26amp; try 2 use Godly wisdom.How do you ';break up'; with a friend who is a negative?
i think u should tell her... ';hey i think we shouldnt be friends anymore. this isnt working';
Just tell her you're really busy with school work (if you're in school). If you aren't in school tell her you have a lot of family issues going on or something. She'll slowly get the hint.
Maybe you can tell them that you have some things going on in your life and you need to be alone
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