How do i get my friend to break up with her boyfriend?

I dont want to be mean but he is mean to her a lot and he hates me and i am her best friend and he hates all of our other friends.He also cusses me out. please help me to get her to break up with him give me your ideas thanx!!!How do i get my friend to break up with her boyfriend?
well unfortunately... u cnt make her break up wit him. if she like him then thats her. u can tell her that she deserve better and that he not right for her, but in the end thats her choice.How do i get my friend to break up with her boyfriend?
you cant really do anything, you just have to make her understand.





just never say good stuff about him and whenever she says something about him that requires responce just say something like ';well...i dont like him that much. and i personally think you can do WAY much better.'; and if she asks for details then explain how rude he is and tell her about how he is rude to her and you think she shouldnt take it.








but in the end its her decision and you cant force her to do it.
talk to her about it, talk to him about it, just try to fix it. there are ways to make it stop that don't involve you ruining her relationship. you may not be able to control whether or not he likes you or your friends, but that doesn't mean he's a bad guy for her.
Get a hot chick to flirt with him and mess around with him. Either set it up so your friend catches them, or have the girl that messes with him leave a hickey on him..
You can't. Or, at least, you shouldn't.


Trust me, I know exactly how you feel 'cause I've been in a similar situation. Does she know you hate her boyfriend? If not, how would she deal with it?





However you feel about him though, and I know you're trying to do the right thing by her and protect her, but she's chosen to be in this relationship and any break up should be between him and her - you should not interfere.





I hope things resolve themselves for you soon though.
tell her he tried it on with you.
You can't make her break up with him, you can tell her what you think but don't be confused if she has a go at you. She must see something in him and until she sees his negative qualities there's nothing you can do but influence her opinion on him. But if she's happy then leave it, because if he makes her happy then surely that's a good thing?
well you could try telling her by saying that he is distracting her a lot





hopefully i helped!!!!!!
This is one of those situations that will always be a replay. It's like the never-ending best friend telling her friend to get out of an abusive relationship! This is something that your friend is going to have to realize and see for herself, because, in life, you can never make anyone do anything they don't want to. I hate to sound like I'm siding with the guy, but do you sit back and put yourself in HIS shoes, that maybe he cusses you and her other friends out, because he feels as the relationship, it's none of your business. He may see it, that it is HIM that is in the relationship and not y'all. I can only say that, because this is how my ex-husband was like - - all my friends weren't particularly liked by him, because of the fact that they always stuck their noses into it, when in truth, it really wasn't their business.





I know as a friend, you want to be there for your friend. So do just that. Be there for her. Don't push the subject that she should break up with him. Like I said before, you aren't there behind closed doors, and you don't see BOTH sides of the story; you only see what is infront of you and told to you by your friend. I'm not saying she is, but it could be that she's embellishing more than it truly is.





Just be there for your friend. Talk to her, but in a positive manner. Ex: ';I don't like the guy you are dating, and I see him being really mean to you and to us, your friends. As your friend, I will always stick beside you. I may not understand the choices that you make in life, but I will never leave your side as a girlfriend.';





Believe me, that if you approach your girlfriend in this way, it will show HER that you have RESPECT for her and her decisions she makes. Otherwise, she may see you as a threat. Again, this isn't something you can fix...it has to be HER decision. If you don't like the way he treats you %26amp; the rest of her friends, I would approach him, and even apologize for getting into ';their'; business. Tell him you aren't behind closed doors, but you see how he treats her when you are around them, AND the way he treats you guys...advise to him that he should treat everyone, including himself with respect. Be forewarned that he may swear at you...and again, you aren't in his shoes. He may have other major problems hitting him all at once.





I hope this helps!
Maybe she should hate you too. for meddling in her Business.


If you were a good friend, you wouldn't be asking this question, you wouldn't be thinking of such a thing.
awww hunn same guys can be really mean but i think you should stay strong tell her how u feel and if that dosent work pay someone to make him cheat on her haha but i hope i helped at least a little
kill him





that should work





sheesh i was kidding
Well if you really wanted to tell her then you could put her on the guilt trip and say, ';You care more about your boyfriend than your friend, and friends are always supposed to come first.'; Friends are definitely more important, and if she ignores this fact, give her the cold shoulder until she comes around. Let her know how much you detest the bf.