Monday, August 16, 2010

How do I help my best friend through a break up?

My best friend just got broken up with by his gf of 13 months, and he's like breaking down.


I'm not sure how to get him through it..


Help please?How do I help my best friend through a break up?
give him a bjHow do I help my best friend through a break up?
Be there for him,call him up/text him more often to show him your a supporting friend.Like the others have said take him out to places that dont remind him of that girl. Or you guys could stay in watch movies, play video games idk whatever guys do. Tell him it'll be okay that everything happens for a reason and something good will happen in the future for him. Always be optimistic to get him through the rough times he will encounter.Do things together that you both havent done in a long time such as something you guys did before he ment that girl. Sleep at his house a few times. Two things though: dont try pushing any other girls on him anytime soon itll make him feel worse and whatever you do dont bad mouth his ex at all. Its best not to talk about her as much but if he brings it up just listen and try to make him feel better.Hope this helps.
Keep him distracted (hang out, have fun, make him keep up with hobbies or exercise to help get his mind off of things)


Talk him through it, listen to every concern he has and just be understanding when you can. Help him communicate to her (when necessary) and try to push him forward. It's going to take a while, sorry it just is, but he'll appreciate it in the long run.





Just distractions, good times, and listening.





Don't let him cope alone.
I just went through a divorce and I had a terrific friend that stood by me no matter if she thought I was wrong or not. Just be there when they need someone to listen. Try not to be too harsh with your opinions. She helped me by being available at pretty much any time and was a great listener.
there really isnt much you can do. but like everyone (almost) said...be there for him...





dont look at it like a distraction but get him going on with his life.





but you do have to him have time to grieve...





dont force him into ';life'; just quite yet if its only been a few days or so...





maybe after a week or around that time
Make yourself available, if you do anything together that you will normally whoop his *** in like say a video game let him win. ( don't make it obvious)If he wants to talk trash about her, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT HER!, just let him vent.
well first off, don't hook up with his ex. just do stuff with him, that is gonna keep his mind off his break up. movies, video games, night outs, TV, etc.....





good luck,





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just always be there for him and listen to what he has to say and just understand what hes going thru just try to make him feel better
listen to him when he wants to talk. you probably don't really need to give him advice unless he asks for it.





get him ice cream and have a movie marathon
Cheer him up like maybe' U still have mroe life time' or' You can get other girls , she is not the only one' blah blah,something like those
don't make fun of him if he cries. Take him to do fun stuff but in places your sure you won't run into her. Let him talk, listen, DON'T DISS HER! be there and that will be enough
If u suspect he might hurt himself get him help before it's too late. If not, take him out some where he can meet other women.
get him distracted


take him out to have fun and get him to stop thinking about that but most important be there for him.
Help him through it! :)
tell him that its her loss and there are lots of othe fish in the sea. he just has to find the right one.








hope i helped
always be there for him and try 2 make him talk about it, listen what he has 2 say ....
keep him busy
tell him to buck up. get someone else or maybe two
just always be there
tell her to get over it,


**** happens.


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