Ok, my main deal is my best friend is not sure anymore about going out with my good friend. What advice should i give him to help break up with his girlfriend? By the way, his girlfriend is in love with him.How do I help my best friend break up with a really good friend?
hmmm... actually you cant help... just let them handle their own problem...How do I help my best friend break up with a really good friend?
The best advice is for him to break up with her now and in person(none of that email or voice mail break up), especially if she is in love with him. It's not right for him to continue a relationship with her if he feels that it is not going anywhere.... it will only make it harder on her later. He just has to be honest with her, while trying to still be nice about it... don't play the blame game, just explain that he doesn't have the same feelings for her that she has for him. He can even add that he is doing this because he feels she deserves someone who can love and appreciate her as much as she deserves... kinda takes the sting out of being dumped.
You shouldn't get involved though, don't play middle man for them. If either one needs a friend to lean on then be there for that, and try to make time for each of them... I'm sure neither one of them wants to lose a friend at the same time as losing a bf/gf.
oh man
this maxim magizine had a perfect article on this
buy a maxim and find the issue!
Stay out of it, if your friend ever doubts their decision, guess who the path leads back to and you will never hear the end of it. Give support and advice ONLY if asked for it.
Stay out of it.
dont get involved try to keep both friend when its all over.. if u already are involved its ur own fualt and ill let u learn the lesson on ur own.
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