Problem with a friend and her break-up....?

My best friend broke up with her boyfriend of 5 years about a year a ago. She still goes through periods of depression, she still is obsessed with what is going on in his life. She can't have a ten min. conversation with me without mentioning him. She just won't let it die! She is insensitive to anything going on in any of her other friends' life because all she wants to do is talk about how she's feeling about her ex. I am emotionally drained! Everytime you turn around, she's talking about him and thier break-up.





Maybe I am wrong but shouldn't she be over this by now? Or at least not so obsessed with the situation? Everytime she sees one of his friends or hears about something new in his life she looses it. She does nothing but talk about him and how wrong she feels he treated her for the next week. I cant take it anymore.....Help?!Problem with a friend and her break-up....?
well the truth is- she'll be over it when she's over it- BUT- you have every right to say things to her like- I know you're still grieving and i understand but I'd like to tell you about some stuff that's going on with me ok?


or ';I'm really trying to be a good friend here but it seems to me that you don't want to move on. Is there anything I can do to help you move on?';Problem with a friend and her break-up....?
I would tell her you need to get over it, and find something else to do with herself. Tell her you refuse to listen to anything about him, and if she starts anyway hang up on her or walk away. This is tough love, and its for her benefit. Tell her how concerned for her you are, and this is unhealthy.





But to be honest she sounds very self-centered, and she could use some alone time, GIVE IT TO HER.
suggest a psychiatrist, seriously. she needs professional help to get over him and someone else's ear to bend.

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